Women don’t marry for the sake of marrying, they marry to survive. A woman does not marry to survive, she marries to survive and the conditions of life are there, and a house is a minimum, if not a necessity. When it comes to marriage, the people who value family background the most are from Heilongjiang; the people who are most receptive to “gold-digging women” are from Zhejiang; and the people who think that more money is most likely to lead to cheating on their partners are from Jiangsu ……
In the face of some sensitive marriage issues, men and women in Beijing have taken up a higher percentage in several items, with 8.5% of men and women in Beijing saying they “can’t stand not having a house, car or money”. The survey shows that the age of 30 has become a watershed for entering marriage, and the urban population is getting married two years later than the national average, but the traditional “men should get married when they are old enough” is still the mainstream ideology. According to a sample survey in the China Population and Employment Statistical Yearbook 2010, the gender ratio of the national population under 19 years old was 118:100 in 2009, and the gender ratio of the urban population was 115:100, which is a serious deviation from the normal gender ratio. In the next few years, as this population gradually enters the peak of marriage and dating, it will be more difficult for men to choose a spouse. Many people are looking for single girls around them, and it seems like there are a lot of “leftover girls”. The report says that the proportion of men in the 20-34 year old single population is increasing as they get older. Investigators believe that the problem of “leftover men” is much more serious than “leftover women”. The ratio of non-married men to women in the national population is 199:100 at age 27 and 293:100 at age 33; the situation is slightly better among the urban population of the same age, with an average of 162:100 between the ages of 27 and 34. Women say: house is the minimum condition for marriage Women don’t marry for the sake of marrying, but for the sake of Survival of marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide a safe and secure environment for women to live in. Security is the primary condition of women in the emotions, no security, any woman will not easily marry. The purpose of marriage is not for the house, no house is really not. In order to have a stable and secure life in the future, a woman’s desire for a house is stronger than any need. For the sake of a house, a woman may love you, but will not marry you. For some reason, many women are not able to marry their beloved ones and are with the house. With a house, you have a fixed life, and you will be able to work and take care of your home without worrying. Of course the inner pain is there, she has to think of her beloved, his future and his marriage. The reason why the number of women who cheat has increased is because love has not been settled. The affection of the couple cannot replace the love in the heart. There are women who do not contact their former lover for the sake of a strong marriage, but inside they are pining for it, using the pain to turn it into love for their family. Some women continue to secretly keep in touch with their loved ones after marriage, perhaps not actually for love, but for a thoughtfulness or comfort. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. Who can live happily on their salary at the moment? Almost all of them can’t do it, and everyone suddenly feels financially strained and stressed. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you want to do. Contemporary living conditions are better, although the economy is not very rich, but the conditions are good, hope is still there, so everyone is counting on day after day tomorrow and the realization of the ideal. Women’s waiting time is limited, men can marry 18 year old girls in their fifties, can women in their fifties find 18 year old men? No. So men are not in a hurry, women can’t wait, so older women give a sense of impatience. Women may have been in a relationship with you for five years and suddenly break up to marry another man. Men can’t figure out what women want, it’s really quite simple, they want to find something to fall back on, a safe haven to dock. The difference between women and men is that they see marriage as the end of their lives and men see it as the beginning. Seventy percent of women put their marriage on the house, not women are too greedy, is too much women need security and peace of mind. It doesn’t matter if you have a house, even if you have a hard time, as long as you have a stable home and don’t have to pay rent all month and worry about the landlord suddenly asking to quit. With a house, women will have peace of mind to have children, otherwise women are apprehensive. Don’t condemn women for being too realistic, it’s men who just can’t, it’s society that has a lot of factors. The lack of a house should not be taken as the incompetence of men. The original era when everyone had a house was not far from me, so how come all of a sudden they don’t have one? There are deep social reasons for this, the original living are bungalows, anyone can afford to build, now build can not let you build. The emphasis now is on economic development and construction, and property is a prominent symbol of a place’s performance and modernity. A city is no more developed and has a high economic income, it can’t hold up its image without tall buildings. So, the reality is that there is no way to get a house, and you can’t afford to buy a house just by working part-time or white-collar ordinary income, with an annual salary of 100,000. The house is not not enough, is too commercial, too utilitarian. So, don’t misinterpret what women really think and want. ${FDPageBreak} Man says: Who are you to talk to me about a house and a car A man wrote an article “Don’t talk about love without 500,000 for urban men”, in which he mentioned that the two hardware for a happy marriage are: money emotion. It can be said that one cannot be missing, emotion is the root of a happy marriage, while money is the guarantee of a happy life. This is true, capital and emotions are indispensable in a marriage, but no money in the marriage must be unfortunate? It may not necessarily depend on how two people view married life. The men living in the present are really tired, the first thing they think about before they fall in love is not to get along with each other, but to feel whether their wallets are bulging or not, which is the sad reality of society. The phoenix man, the gold-digging woman prevalent in the society, talk about a pure love is really not easy. The responsible man in their own economic strength has not accumulated to a certain extent, it is difficult to talk about love, no house no car who will marry you! In the face of such worldliness, let many men lower their originally very proud heads. But there are a lot of women who haven’t had a lot of time. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. Feelings? I want to talk about feelings, but unfortunately many women talk to me about my salary, my assets, my house and my car, and slowly, I almost forgot about feelings. Nothing personal here, just saying it’s not good that there is such a culture among girls, you may be aggravated and unconvinced, but you’re outclassed by men. You guys have a house, car, and income as prerequisites for marriage, which I don’t agree with but doesn’t mean it’s offensive because I can’t meet it. Why do you and your parents look so much at the house and car when you get married? Because you and your parents don’t have any confidence in your own financial strength and think that if you can’t meet the car and house at the time of marriage, you will most likely have to repeat the misery of your parents’ lifetime for the rest of your lives. Everyone has the right to pursue a comfortable and comfortable life but a good life is not going to fall from the sky. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. If you want to live a good life, the first thing you should think about is your own efforts, rather than putting your hopes in others. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Please don’t inflate your own value, think you’re beautiful, think you’re high class, take a look in the mirror, will you? The first thing you need to do is look at yourself. The most important thing is that you can’t be sure of what you’re doing. Because you have too much uncertainty about the future from the depths of your heart and too much melancholy in your heart. What is temperament? Sometimes temperament is the attitude towards life, and most of you don’t have it. Cooking and doing laundry is not an obligation, it’s a responsibility to the family. It’s not a matter of the two of you sharing the chores, and it’s not a matter of how much you and I share with each other, but the harsh reality is that many girls simply won’t do the chores. You may be the exception, and that’s fine, but most girls refuse to do it from the inside. In fact, housework is an important part of married life, if you do not even do housework, then what kind of marriage do you want? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want. Materialism is not wrong, we are all materialistic. The problem is that you are not pursuing material things that are upscale at all, but often you are asking people who are not even realistic to meet your material requirements. I want to talk to you about relationships not about houses and cars, which are a product of having love in the premise. ${FDPageBreak} Tips: men without houses in the era of high prices can “marry men” Yu Xiaoming told reporters that the burden of supporting the family in ancient China was mainly by selling men’s labor, the Chinese character for Male is a field above and a force below, the level of human technology at that time was not developed, so the farming work at home will be done by men, because the physiological structure of men and women is different, men’s strength is greater, so the social status of men is higher, relatively speaking, women due to physiological and other reasons can not adapt to the social labor production at that time, resulting in their disadvantaged position; Yu Xiaoming affirmed that the people of China The most realistic, ancient women are not as capable as men, coupled with being confined to the shackles of the feudal system, is what led to the low status of women. Nowadays, the country has been accelerating urbanization for decades, and developed coastal areas such as Zhejiang no longer have agricultural land to plant. Some big cities have liberated women’s labor due to the change of traditional production methods from agriculture to industry, so women’s social status and economic base have improved, and the more developed areas are, the higher the social status of women is. The reason for this is that China is moving from an agrarian civilization to an urban industrialized civilization, where high-tech equipment has replaced men’s physical strength, and the development of science and technology has led to the emergence of idle labor among urban men. The reason is that China is moving from an agrarian civilization to an urban industrialized civilization, where high-tech equipment replaces men’s physical strength. It is based on the reality that the model of Shanghai men was born, not people think that Shanghai men have been like this since ancient times. It is clear that the social status of men and women is determined not by anything else but by reality, and if you have to materialize it, it is the economic base that determines the social status of men and women in the family. In the face of high housing prices, Yu Xiaoming gave advice to the majority of men, saying that “men marrying women” can alleviate various social conflicts, said Yu Xiaoming, the Chinese character for marry is a woman on the left and a family on the right, meaning that women and men get married to have a home, and the same word for marry means that men who want to marry women have to put her over in their own homes. If we can change the female character for marry to the male character for marry, and the female character for marry to the male character for bottom, then the concept of men and women getting married will be changed forever. Yu Xiaoming said this is more realistic, first of all, it can reduce the number of domestic male bachelors, according to China’s population gender ratio, the current domestic male population base is larger than female, China will have tens of millions of bachelors can not marry a wife, coupled with the current urban women’s education level and social status, more and more women will choose to join the ranks of the remaining women, so that more In order to avoid this social human crisis derived from the house, in order to allow more men to find their other half, Yu Xiaoming reluctantly advised that from the current rate of decline in housing prices, it is unrealistic to buy a house, it may be worthwhile for male friends to put aside male dignity and social status, so that women can assume the social role and pressure of men, so that she and her mother-in-law to discuss with real estate developers The price of housing is more realistic than and let the mother-in-law and his mother-in-law calculate whether there is a house or not. Lastly, Yu Xiaoming said that the concept of “men marrying women” can also successfully solve the problem of premarital property division, because the property rights belong to the woman and her family, so that the woman’s life after marriage is guaranteed, and do not have to worry about divorcing the man after marriage, to avoid their own divorce because the property belongs to the man and was kicked out of the house. The situation of the property belongs to the man.
