Wise women know that in order to enhance their charm, they have to play womanly tricks. This is so that you do not make yourself in the trend of fashion, can not find individuality, own charm; and can make the most of your own charm in the shortest possible time.
1. Be sure to find someone you really love, not someone who loves you
Remember that men are two different things before and after marriage, and just because he loves you now doesn’t mean he’ll love you for the rest of his life.
Many people hold the argument that a smart woman finds someone who loves her, not someone she loves. Reflect carefully, you find someone, he loves you, but you do not love him, you can be truly happy? Living with a person you do not love for the rest of your life, you can really be happy? Furthermore, a person, who loves you now, must still love you so much in the future?
In a general sense, men before and after marriage are very different, especially some men who love you with all their hearts when they are chasing you, and then immediately turn 180 degrees in attitude when they catch up. So, before accepting a person who loves you, you have to think clearly. Of course, if you can find someone who wants to love each other, it is perfect, if you can’t find, advice, find someone you truly love, at least this way, you pay for him you do not regret.
2. Don’t expect a reliable man, first of all, find a reliable person
If you can’t find your true love, then at least find someone reliable. What do you mean by a reliable person, in short, is someone you can rely on. First of all, the character has to pass, some girls do not value this, specifically like the “playboy type”, “bad boy type” …… play can, but entrusted with a lifetime, you have to be careful. These people are simply not reliable, how do you rely on?
Reliable men are not easy to find, at least look for a reliable one.
3. Character is a necessary but by no means sufficient condition
It is crucial to look at how a person is, not simply by what they have done for you, but by what a person is. Because, it is likely that he is doing certain things are all acting and putting on a show. But just because a person is nice, that doesn’t constitute a condition that will move you. Being nice is necessary, but not all.
4. Don’t believe everything your best friend says
Simple little girls It’s a habit to look to your best friend for ideas on everything, but it’s always wrong to leave the big event of your life to someone else. It’s time for you to make your own decisions on such matters, no matter what. The best way to get the most out of your life is to get the most out of it.
No matter what others say, you must have an idea yourself. The most important thing is that many boys now know how to chase women, and one of them is to fix the girlfriends around you, soft and hard, compulsion plus isolation, so that you will be in confusion.
5. Ethereal romance can make love equally ethereal
Little girls Love romance, that’s right. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. True love requires two people to be together, not just a garden in the sky, a mirage, these good choices to make the customer half the effort ethereal romance is beautiful, but always difficult to last. If you are touched by a little romance and do not see the essence of the problem, regret will come one day.
6. Giving up everything for love is not worth it
Girls have a very sacred longing. Yes, love is sacred, but it is sacred in that it makes your life more exciting because of love, not more miserable because of love.
Girls who give up their homes to immigrate to Singapore because of love succeed in getting a green card court, there are many who give up their relatives, right or wrong, just you have to think about whether it is worth it for you or not. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
7. Don’t use your youth as a bargaining chip
Youth is a gift from God. A gift that is meant to be cherished and savored, not a bargaining chip to gamble with. Many simple girls task themselves with youthfulness and invincibility, so they behave uninhibitedly and do as they please. But the youth, after all, immature, and do not know how to cherish this time, to be youth has passed, too late to regret. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
8. Be wary of people who offer affection at all times
There is no unexplained Love, a person that gives you attention frequently, then he definitely has an idea for you. A person who truly loves you is someone who can help you in big things, not someone who is attentive to you in small things. Such as waiting for you every day, often buying flowers to send you, or picking you up from school …… anyway, these superficial little things should not be enough to move you and fall in love with him.
Of course, if you like him, that’s a different story, but if you don’t, you should make it clear so you don’t get subliminally “snubbed”.
9. People who just talk are never good people
People who are good at talking and talking about everything. Very good at talking, saying everything to the ceiling and everything to your heart, such people, you should be more careful. Because this kind of people have made how to talk as the whole of thinking, that’s why they will talk. Because of this, they are also only talking and can’t do anything practical.
This kind of person is best to respect and stay away from. If you are moved by his words and marry him, you start a lifetime of suffering, and if you don’t marry him, you don’t know what he will make up about you in front of others.
10. Don’t think you’re mature when you suddenly understand one or two truths
People, who suddenly understand one or two seemingly profound truths from books or listening to lectures, think they are mature. You should know that this is itself a very immature performance, truly mature people, first of all, people who have their own thinking, their own ability to calmly analyze the words of others, analyze the problem, analyze society. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the website.
Here is an example of a friend who, after listening to an investment seminar, was quickly “inspired” to raise money to “invest “to make a lot of money. I can only say that she, too pedantic, if the person who opened the lecture has such a good opportunity to “make a lot of money”, why he bothered to open the lecture? As a result, not half a year later, the work of these years of hard work to save a little money all have gone without return. A lot of people are fooling around with a few “big ideas” and “famous quotes” to grab you. Not to mention this, even many celebrities have said, the situation has changed, it is time to carefully analyze the analysis. A person without their own ideas, will never mature. The sign of maturity is, first of all, not to be fooled.