It’s not too much to raise your core competency in front of your beloved man!
1. Look at your nose first when you meet a handsome man.
Some year, some month, some day you meet a man who makes you very excited, and you don’t dare to look at his eyes, so look at his nose. The book of etiquette says that the height of a girl’s gaze at the tip of her nose is the most elegant, and more importantly, you can use it to observe a certain “privacy” of his – the book of physiology says that from the degree of the nose’s uprightness can be inferred to his xx ability. The body is the capital of the revolution, although it is difficult to say, but I do not think any mm want to live with vegetables for life.
2. There are at least one or two blue friends.
Do you want him to be obsessed with you forever? Try this one. Always have your admirers but always be as close to them as you can get, even if you need them just as much after marriage, but remember that the most you can do is lend them a shoulder and no other parts. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
And it’s not without its benefits for you. You have a few more men to care about from now on, and you can stop having to give all your loving devastation to just one of him. ps: never take that step with your blue guy, because after that step, nothing is good anymore. Your husband is no longer good, but must be better than your blue face.
3. Look at him before you get married.
Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and this is a constant truth for ages. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4. Don’t think you’re mature enough to ignore your feelings – it’s called self-harm.
Growth doesn’t have to be from an ugly duckling to a white swan; it’s more likely to turn you into a big, ugly duck if you don’t know how to accept it.
5. Never overestimate yourself and never underestimate him.
“Just because he used to love you a lot doesn’t mean he’ll always love you that much. Just because he once needed you a lot, doesn’t mean he can’t do without you. The upper hand in a relationship is given by him, and the day he stops loving you so much you become the lower hand, and he doesn’t send you a mail to inform you.” These are the exact words of my favorite author.
The most powerful vanity of women is that no matter how good a man is, if he loves them that much, so they unknowingly think less of him. When he suddenly stops loving one day, only then will he know that he has lost such an excellent man. So if you want a relationship to last, do not overestimate yourself, many times if you use the position of friends to see each other’s approach, there will be a lot less quarrels. Remember he’s not always going to crouch at your feet – as much as that fact pisses us off!
6. Marry a “rich man”.
The man you marry doesn’t have to be worth millions, but first he has to be the one who is most willing to spend money for you, and second he better have the upbringing of a really rich person, and not some burgeoning family face. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
7. You must be able to cook.
You don’t have to be able to cook a full meal, but you should at least feed yourself. The man likes you to rely on him, but he will eventually abandon you for it. The woman who knows how to cook can put herself in order and be alive and well, and is less likely to lose the man and less likely to lose herself. The woman who knows how to serve her stomach full when she is sad will not be foolish enough to taste all the hardships when she is happy.
8. And have a few random girlfriends.
A woman’s mind is, after all, better understood by women. Which brand of cosmetics is better, which brand of men is better. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
9. Have one or two hobbies that fascinate you.
I love to draw, I love to write, I love to geek out, I love to blog, and I love makeup.
It’s a love, not a like.
The older you get the more you learn how important it is to have a world of your own. A man just needs you – outside of what he wants to be alone and within what he can control. The most important thing you have to do is make him understand that you are the same, that he is not your sky, and that there are plenty of happy things you can do besides being with him.
You do facials when he doesn’t kiss you, you hold shopping bags when he doesn’t hold you, and he doesn’t want you to stare blankly and feel sorry for yourself!
10. Learn to be self-absorbed.
You want him to love you more, you have to love yourself more. If you don’t even love yourself as a woman, who is he to love you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The most he can do is to feel infinitely guilty if you have the misfortune to turn yourself into a yellow face – he must dream of being with a woman who has to feel guilty for her all day long.
11. Enjoy love instead of trampling on yourself.
You know why it’s easier for men to come out of a breakup than for us? They don’t think too much about it, they enjoy it when it’s time to enjoy it, and when it’s time to let it go, they have a big sadness, nothing to get over.
While we tend to sleep and eat over his words when we should be enjoying ourselves, we desperately speculate about the “deeper meaning” of his eyes one day. The first thing he wanted to tell you when he came across something funny was, “I actually found out last night at dinner with whoever.” He was so excited, but you interrupted sharply: “What? Last night you said you were working late?” From then on he never dared to tell you.
You trampled on your own feelings and suffered even more when you let go: “How can love be so painful! I never want to fall in love with anyone again!
12. Don’t push him until there is no way back.
He came back from a vacation with gifts from everyone but you, and he had to smile sarcastically: I searched all over the place and couldn’t find a gift that would match yours. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
He’s already weak-minded, he already knows he’s wrong, and if you’re aggressive, you’ll push him into a big, vague rage and an irrational and unwise move. Even in private, do not push him to the edge, not to mention if it is you who is capricious, if it is you who bases his love on you. He took 10 steps back for you, and then the next step might be to turn around and walk away.
13. Whatever he loves to hear, you can say.
He loves to hear you call him husband, so go ahead; he loves to hear you say a lifetime, so go ahead; just remember not to have too serious and too smitten an expression on your face every time you say it, that will make him too smug, and a little farther, it will scare him. In the end, you’ll get yourself killed.
14. There are only ever two or three men you can trust completely.
This was said to me by my brother, who said the three men are: my dad, my brother, and the man who will marry me in the future. If you don’t have a brother who particularly loves you, then there are only two.
Dads always love their daughters the most, and even though my dad was mean and aggressive, so aggressive that not many boys dared to call my house from middle school until now, I still think he was right. Because the people closest to you always protect you in the ways you hate the most. In the same way you can verify how much the man who says he wants to marry you really loves you.
15. Be the white poppy.
Remember Eileen Chang’s “The Red Rose and the White Rose”? I guess you neither want to be that puddle of mosquito blood nor are you willing to just become that empty vermilion hemorrhoid in his heart. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
16. Don’t just love how good he is to you.
You can love him for his handsomeness, for his intelligence, for his kindness, even for his body, but don’t do it just because you love how good he is to you. His handsomeness, his intelligence, his kindness, his body, are all his own things, and even if one day you separate, you won’t lose much, but if you only love how good he is to you – he gives so crazy because he loves you so much, no one can compare to him. One day he suddenly takes it back, and I guarantee you’ll be in pain!
17. The last embrace.
Believe me, he will never love you as much as your mother loves you, just as you will never love him as deeply as his mother loves him. So never ask him, if I fell into the river with your mom. He will hate the thought in his heart, why are you so careless to fall into the river and drag on my mother? We all have such a last embrace, and we should all cherish it!
Finally, if you’re a man and you accidentally wander into a forbidden place, please don’t say anything after you read it. Don’t blame me for teaching the girls to be smart, I just told them: make the worst of it and work toward the best. It’s not too much to boost your core competencies in front of the man you love!