A man confesses that becoming his girlfriend is an extremely long process, with at least the following 14 steps that girls might want to check off.
1. Look at sex
Some people think that men take sex seriously, that they see it as a symbol of intimacy. Indeed, there are many young guys who still hold this attitude.
2. Staying out all night
Sex itself is not reliable, let’s say staying out all night. Many people will be embarrassed to wake up early in the morning and find someone else lying next to them. He can only spend the night out with someone he particularly desires to be close to.
3. Making breakfast after a sleepover
If he makes you breakfast the next day after a sleepover, it means he wants to spend more time with you. The reason is that even the simplest of breakfasts require him to give up something, such as following the stock market, or taking a morning walk with friends.
4. Allowing you to use his beloved things
A man usually doesn’t lend his beloved things to others easily.
If a man is generous to you, it means that you hold a great deal of weight in his heart.
5. Small intimate gestures in public places
For example, when you are eating at a restaurant with friends and he strokes you under the table, or when you are standing together and he slides his hand into your shirt and strokes your back. These small gestures are often not seen by others, so it’s not about confessing your relationship to others, it’s just letting each other know that you share a space in a sea of people.
6. Kiss you passionately in a public place he frequents
This is a clear indication. Otherwise he will be afraid of being seen by others because he doesn’t want to make your relationship public yet.
7. Allowing you to see his collection of small objects
Some guys may swear by saying, “There are things in my bedroom that I would never let a woman see.” Things like pictures of old girlfriends, a collection of baseball cards from high school, and so on.
But once he met his true love, those little items came out on their own. “Because she spends more time around me than anyone else, it’s hard to hide something from her. And I also want her to see these things so she can get to know me better.”
8. He doesn’t hide his privacy from you
That means there are no more secrets between you.
9. He takes your advice on his clothing
If you like the tough guy image and all he buys himself after dating you is cowboy clothes and cowboy boots. Then you’re in danger of becoming his girlfriend.
10. After seven months, there’s no third party involved
Some people are big fans of the seven-month rule. It’s possible that after six months of dating you, he still doesn’t think you’re a couple. But if you’ve been dating for seven months without any third party involvement, then you’re a couple whether you realize it or not.
11. He needs to reach out to other women
After you’ve been dating for months, if he says to you, “I don’t want to get married yet, let’s break up, we should reach out to other people. Then you should agree with him. It’s likely that he’ll come back to you before too long.
12. Use “we”
When he sees you as his significant other, he will unknowingly turn “I” in the conversation into
When he sees you as his significant other, he unconsciously turns “I” into “we” in conversation. And when he goes out on a trip, all he thinks about is the cost for two people.
13. He screamed so loudly you saw his tears
Most men think crying in pain is a sign of weakness because they always imagine themselves as strong, so you can imagine how difficult it is to cry in front of the woman you’re dating. If you see his tears, it means he loves you because he shows you his true self.
14. Day after day
In fact, there is no way to completely understand whether a person’s mind is mature enough, and I think perhaps this is the most attractive part of love. Feelings always need to be run constantly, with our hearts and minds, day after day, year after year …… This is how real couples are honed.