Last year, the divorce rate in China skyrocketed for all to see, and the reasons for extramarital affairs vary among scholars, but most tend to believe that anyone who has an extramarital affair must have one of the following ten signs in their psyche.
One, the psychology of compensation
Some people are separated from their spouses because of The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to help you achieve your goals. In fact, sex is not the whole content of the couple’s life, as long as the couple strengthen contact, emotional communication, miss each other in the heart, life is still full, and there is no need to compensate.
Two, owe love psychology
Some lovers eventually failed to become a couple
Some lovers end up not being able to make it, each of them has their own family, or one of them has a family and the other one doesn’t want to have a family but still has a crush on the other one.
In fact, lovers may not all be able to become a family, since both sides have their own families or each other has a family, should face the reality, cherish the feelings of the couple, when the other side of life is difficult or when the couple’s feelings are not the same, with extramarital love to repay each other’s love, rather than help each other, rather than say that the other side, the damage to each other. The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
Three, greed for money
Some people are greedy for each other’s The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the actual situation. In addition, those who have money should also be careful not to give true love for each other, since the other party is coveting your money, and why give true love for each other and produce romance.
Four, the psychology of appearance
Some people covet a woman’s beauty or a man’s fit body because of her The fact is that the beauty of the exterior will disappear naturally with age, but only the beauty of the heart is eternal, like a fine wine, the longer it is, the more mellow it is.
So the most important thing is to be good at finding your spouse’s shining point and offering your true love, so that the lover’s eyes will naturally have a western beauty.
V. The mentality of repayment
Some people get help from each other because they have difficulties in life, or because their husbands have been in trouble for a long time. The family has been taken care of by the other party for a long time because the husband has been away for a long time, and they have no way to repay each other, so they have to offer their bodies, which leads to extra-marital relationships.
In fact, since the other party is sincere in helping you, they don’t want you to return, they are kind to you, you just remember it in your heart, why offer your body? The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
Six, revenge psychology
Some couples have an affair because one of them has an affair The other party, in order to take revenge on the other party, actively seeks a third party, thus creating an extramarital relationship. In fact, both know that the other party has an affair is wrong, why they go looking for a third party, is not to know the wrong to make a mistake?
Seven, curiosity
Some couples have a mediocre life and find it boring. The main character of the film and television is in love with his lover, and the waves rise, and live a taste of the dazzling and comfortable, they also want to experience this life, so, driven by this curiosity, resulting in extramarital love. The actual fact is, peace and quiet is a blessing, don’t this mountain look at that mountain high, being in the blessing don’t know blessing.
Eight, the psychology of pleasure
Some people are influenced by the bourgeois sex
Some people are influenced by bourgeois sexual emancipation, or by obscene films and books, and believe that life is a life of eating and drinking and having fun while they are young, so they have promiscuous relationships with the opposite sex and thus have extramarital affairs.
In fact, sexual liberation and obscene movies and books are harmful toxins that we should all consciously resist and establish the right moral and life view, not mistaking arsenic for white sugar.
Nine, the psychology of mutual pleasure
Some men and women because of the work of mutual help, support, over time
There are men and women who help and support each other at work, and over time, both sides have a good feeling that the two love each other, thus producing extramarital love, in fact, a good helper at work, may not become a good couple in life, since both sides help and support each other at work, why not get along like brother and sister, sister and brother?
Ten, mutual benefit mentality
Some people are constrained because of their work The two sides can’t get away from each other, thus generating extra-marital relationships, in fact, as the saying goes: “hands do not stretch, stretching hands will be caught. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.