Sister-brother relationships are becoming more and more popular around, from people to celebrities, and are common. For the traditional Chinese concept, the husband and wife should be a little older than the woman, because the man is the backbone of the family, to bear the burden of building and developing a family, so it should be the role of the big brother. In ancient Chinese society, the three rules and five regulations, the husband for the wife, that is, the husband is the wife’s direct manager, the supervisor of the code of conduct and the standard setter; wife everything to obey the husband’s command, so there is also a husband and wife to follow this statement. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the actual situation.
But why is it that in modern times, sister-brother relationships are becoming more and more common? The reason for this is that, on the one hand, traditional Chinese culture has been impacted by various open cultures from around the world, and people have taken a whole new view of the limits in marriage; age is no longer an issue, and height is no longer a distance. The connotations of free love have arguably been tapped to an unprecedented degree of richness.
Sister-brother relationships are not easy, and look at the things that happen in the entertainment industry.
Case in point
The article on raising a mistress is another recent fall in the entertainment industry after the divorce of Dong Jie and Pan Yeming. A few days ago, the owner of a media company broke the news in tiktok that the article was caught in an extramarital affair with a woman surnamed Ye. The person in question, article released tiktok on November 7, said: a media company boss, you can call out my “Miss Ye” let me know know not?
After the tiktok denying the affair was issued, the article also got a lot of support from netizens, some of whom said he and Ma Yili’s “sister-brother” relationship was not easy to come by, not to mention the fact that they now have children, so they should cherish the happiness in front of them.
This is how sibling love is made
Sibling love–cradlesnatcher
The so-called “sibling love Cradlesnatcher
The term “sibling relationship” refers to a relationship where the female partner is older than the male partner and looks like a sister with a younger brother, reflecting their relationship visually in terms of appearance and life roles.
In the face of love, there is no maturity or childishness, there is no difference in age. It has been said that the only thing in the world that cannot be hidden is love and coughing. It is equally sacred because it does not conform to the norm and goes against common sense, and even more so because it is unconcealable and natural, so it is equally beautiful.
Analysis of Sibling Love
From a psychological point of view, there is a question of “who is the subject and who is the guest”.
When it comes to women as subjects, it is often “motherhood” that plays a key role, expressed as caring for others, which has a biological basis.
From a biological point of view, women between the ages of 30 and 35 are at their most perfect in terms of personal attractiveness. A woman’s personal attractiveness is at its peak.
All of these things negate the basis for starting a sibling relationship in the first place. If men had pursued “sibling relationships” for utilitarian reasons, the emotions would have changed dramatically. Therefore, there is a great deal of uncertainty and risk in “sister-brother” love. The company’s main goal is to provide a more comprehensive and effective solution to the problem.
Fun quiz: Are you a good match for a sister and brother?
Some people like to find a big brother they can rely on, while others are suited to play the role of a big sister in a relationship. Are you suitable for a sibling relationship? Let’s take a test!
1、With a friend to a rusty city lost, this time you:
A, find the police to ask about 3 points B, no matter what, according to the map forward in 5 points
C, like to cry out 1 point
2, the following picture you like that one the most?
A, circle 3 points B, trapezoid 5 points C, square 1 point
3, which one of your siblings do you want the most?
A, brother 5 points B, sister 4 points C, brother 3 points D, sister 0 points
4, there is a tandem bike, you want to ride:
A, front 5 points B, back 1 point C, neither front nor back 3 points
5, two people are walking in the street, there is a big puddle in front, so what do you think he will do?
A, carry you over the puddle 1 pointB, take your hand and walk over 3 points
C, carry a stone for your feet and walk over 5 points
6, when riding with him, there are still 10 minutes to spare before the departure of the bus, you will?
A. Go for a walk around the neighborhood for 3 points B. Wait on the station bench for 1 point
C. Buy something from the kiosk for 5 points
Score 6-12: You are suitable for a boyfriend with a large age difference (7 years or more). Such a man can subtly guide you in all kinds of mind, and give you all kinds of help in study, sports and interests, and finding someone younger than you will make you feel uneasy.
Scoring 13-18: You are suitable for a boyfriend who is slightly older than you (3-6 years old). You are strong-willed and not dependent, but you are a bit overwhelmed, overly worried, and often confused. You are suitable for someone who is a little older and can often help you make up your mind. At first you can’t understand the other person’s psychology, but as you spend more time together, you will be at peace with nature.
Scoring 19-24: You are looking for a boyfriend of the same age. For you, a big age difference makes it difficult to understand each other, to share the same interests and ways of thinking, and for both of you to feel distressed. It is more ideal for the kind of boy of the same age who plays together, likes sports activities, and has a lively personality.
Scoring 25-30: You are suitable for a younger boyfriend. You have an underlying sense of wanting to be an older sister, and when you get along with a young boy, you want to be close to a younger brother-like boyfriend, and when you see a younger, wimpy little boy, you are tenderly considerate and caring. This is the motherly instinct in your heart at work strongly.
The secret of sister-brother relationship
1, to know how to reduce the pressure of the man
Girls love to make small sex, when there are things that do not go well, they cry, break things, go back to the mother’s house. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The actual fact is that you will not be able to use some cautious behavior language to make things difficult for men. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. “Talking” is more important than “looking good”
“Talking” must be the first condition for two people to get together.
The first thing you need to do is to be able to get together with your sister, whether she is mentally naive or your brother is mature. It’s a good idea to be on the same level of thinking to communicate.
3. Be pertinent
A mature woman can benefit a lot from a man. A sisterly wife has deeper experience and can give a man the most pertinent advice that takes into account the big picture and analyzes world events when it comes to big choices in life direction.
4. To give men a sense of security
Some men have Oedipal feelings and need a warm woman.
After all, the woman’s mother is the only one who has the right to be a part of the family.
5. To have their own circle of life
Sisters usually have their own circle of life and have developed hobbies over the years, so they do not need to depend on men and rely on him for everything. This is a great spiritual relief for the man.