“Boredom” refers to the ability to endure something. There is always a “boredom period” in everyone’s psyche. Imagine if two couples live like this, there will be decades of living together, facing the same face every day, we do the same thing, along with the mood swings of people, boredom will naturally arise. Love is like something from the fairy tale world, once it falls into the mortal world, it will be choked by the daily firewood, pots and pans and smoke and fire. The romance smothered in the heart, because of the long absence of sunlight and dried up in due course, the former prince and princess from then on Xiao Lang stranger. Married for dozens of years, the couple’s feelings indifference seems to have become a common phenomenon. But is this a sign that you are both tired of marriage?
1. No more sweet talk
It is well known that to your spouse It is known that saying something sweet and complimentary to your spouse is one of the elements that make up a harmonious couple relationship. There are many ways to express a meaning, but the key is the way to express it. If you’re “too lazy” to make your partner happy, it means “you’re tired of it,” or at least you’re not as interested in your lover’s mood.
2. This is “raw” and you are already separated, both mentally and physically.
3. Shy away from having a picture of you together in a prominent place
If there are no photos of you together in the room, and if there are, they are just tucked haphazardly in some obscure corner, it’s time to reflect on why you shy away from letting people know about your intimacy, because you don’t feel compatible with each other, or because you don’t want people to know about your marriage– This is a sign of a lack of confidence in your partner.
4. Are you constantly envisioning the day you leave
If you have these thoughts from time to time, you are extremely dissatisfied with your life together, and you can’t help but prepare yourself to leave each other.
5, unwilling to take a vacation with your partner
With the person you love It’s nice to swim in the mountains and lakes, but if you’re only willing to spend short periods of time together, it’s the same as being “socially active,” which means there’s a gap in the relationship and a sign of a rift.
6. No more arguing
6. indent:2em;text-align:left;”>This is the worst sign of all. Couples who argue all day long are more likely to live together than couples who have anger bottled up in their stomachs. Arguing shows that you still have passion and the courage to communicate. That cold silence, on the other hand, is the biggest sign of divorce.
What are the signs of marital boredom?
After a long time of marriage, it is easy to get bored, which is a normal phenomenon, but how to deal with this problem is more critical, if the couple knows how to discover the freshness and fun of life, the emotion between them usually will not If they can successfully pass such “boredom” period, then they can avoid many marital crises, because many potential crises are generated by such “boredom”. At the same time, couples should maintain normal communication with each other in order to understand each other’s emotional changes. Communication between spouses is very important for marital families.