As long as the two get along together there will always be some contradictions, and sometimes quarrels become inevitable. Most daughters-in-law today are post-80s and have an arrogant personality, and have no idea how to deal with mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationships, and mother-in-law quarrels immediately show the following obnoxious ways.
1. Forbidden to move to the rescue
No concessions are shouted in an attempt to If you don’t know how to give in, you’ll have to shout for attention or don’t know how to be polite to your elders, which will make your mother-in-law feel cold for you! If you don’t want to make a family scandal out of your mother-in-law’s quarrel, you might as well just tell your mother-in-law, “Dear Mother-in-law, I don’t actually want to quarrel with you!”
2. No Attacking Weaknesses
Many mothers-in-law have reported that they are most un The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. No verbal abuse
Two hundred percent of mothers-in-law say that They hate it when those self-righteous daughters-in-law accidentally start to lose control of their hands and hit each other in between arguments. If in the eyes of the daughter-in-law that is really a kind of “playing Taiji with each other”, then it is good to say “sorry” to your mother-in-law afterwards.
4, No sulking
No matter how virtuous you are, no matter
Even if you are a virtuous person and you know what you are talking about, if you have a bitter face all day and all night, it is likely that within an hour you will start to fight again.
After an inadvertent clash between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, not to be grudging, not to be cloudy, not even regardless of what each other said, not only will not let the mother-in-law take revenge, but also to defuse a more intense war in time, why not?
5. No running away from home
“I’ll go back to my mother’s house if you protect her again!” “You’re not just going to ignore me and the kids for her, are you?” Please don’t use such stupid words on the poor man who is struggling with two women left and right.
Lightly, he will make the wrong choice and let you go to put the dispute to rest, or seriously, you may have your feelings hurt by your mother-in-law. You should know that there is no man who does not love his mother.
6, No bad words hurt
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law clash, it is still necessary to give in front of her. The fact that you have a personal image of your original form will only make her more furious, which is not good for the health of the elderly and the filial piety of the daughter-in-law!
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in conflict, even though they are both at fault, a smart daughter-in-law will first admit her mistakes and make her mother-in-law happy first, so she will feel ashamed of herself and will feel that her daughter-in-law is considerate, so if you quarrel with your mother-in-law, don’t do any of the above, it will only The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are doing.