Emotional issues are becoming more and more important to everyone in this society nowadays. Emotional problems include all aspects. If these emotional problems are not handled properly, they will certainly affect our lives. Today, phenomenological emotional experts will list the emotional problems that exist among internet users themselves. The case is: breaking up with boyfriend for 3 months and never losing contact.
The problem: Broken up with boyfriend for 3 months, never lost contact. I broke up before because the man’s family structure was confusing and insecure. However, I always break up. The male partner has been very tolerant and accommodating, and then I couldn’t stand the firm breakup. Only after the breakup did I know I was wrong and wanted to get back. The male party pays a monthly breakup fee, saying that he broke up, sorry for me, compensate me and comfort me. The breakup bought him. Last week, I was told that I had a crush on a girl, and I was so disheartened that I deleted my friend. The next day sent a text message, the third day called and said he remembered our past and remembered how good I was to him. He was touched, but couldn’t go back and wanted me to scold him. Recently he changed his tone and said he was now bad and had a destiny to wait for me. If we are together again, we will never part. What should I do.
A: Just because he’s giving you a breakup fee doesn’t mean he likes you. He’s just trying to get his moral and conscience in order, including having you scold him. He wants to achieve one thing through this series of actions: pay off his debt and then draw a line in the sand with you. Including all his actions behind the scenes, he is acting crazy and foolish. If I were you, I would reply to him: all you are doing is trying to make yourself feel better. You don’t have to label yourself here, and I’m not as vulnerable as you think. Please don’t disgust me in such a despicable way. Thank you. This message has been sent to him whether you want to save it or not.