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As the saying goes, “When the family comes out of perversity, there is something strange”. This is not an untrue statement. In real life, we often see families that have “ugly things” going on in their homes, which are difficult to prosper, and their families are rarely successful. I remember an old man once warned us that if a family has these messy and scandalous things going on, the family should be wary, or they will not be able to prosper.
A warning from an old man: If these “ugly things” happen in your family, you should be alert, or your family will not be successful
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First, the children in your family have no respect for their elders
A family in which the children have no respect for their elders, do not know how to respect others, and do not know how to be grateful, is a very bad thing. The first thing is that the child has no respect for others. When a child behaves in this way, it is most likely that the parents or the older members of the family are spoiling the child, or that the child lacks education in respecting the elderly and loving the young. These children are overbearing, ungrateful, selfish and hurtful.
The presence of such a child in a family is bound to have a great impact on the family, and the child’s disrespectful and unruly behavior is bound to be annoying, which is bad for the family’s reputation, and the child will become an object of hatred. Therefore, a family with children who behave badly is bound to affect the family’s fortunes, and we must be vigilant. Therefore, it is important for children to be taught at home. Parents should stop spoiling their children and start with the little things to model well for them and cultivate a grateful heart.
A cautionary tale from an old man: these “ugly things” often happen in the home, be wary, it’s hard for your family to get ahead
Second, the old man in the home is disrespectful
In a family, if the old man is disrespectful and misbehaves, often doing “ugly things “
The first is that the family is not a family, but a family that is not a family.
On the contrary, if a family has a good family culture, the elderly will also become a good example for their children, and such a family will certainly have family harmony and filial piety.
If a family is not respectful of the old man and does some ugly things, then his family will seldom be successful, so we should be vigilant.
A cautionary tale from an old man: these “ugly things” often happen at home, so be wary, and your family will have a hard time getting ahead
Third, the relationship between husband and wife at home is not harmonious
Every family is made up of two people, and the harmony between husband and wife directly affects the stability and harmony of the family.
In a family, if the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, the couple often quarrel constantly or cold war, which will inevitably bring a bad atmosphere to the family, which is not conducive to the development of a family, and even leave an indelible impact on the children, which is not conducive to the growth of children.
In addition, prolonged marital discord is also likely to cause one of the spouses to cheat within the marriage and have a family outside the home, which will inevitably lead to the tragedy of marital disintegration, so that the family will also be in trouble and it will be difficult for family members to get ahead.
So even for the sake of the children, for the sake of the family, couples should respect each other, care for each other, do not move to quarrel, cold war, or the final harm is their own family, we must be vigilant ah.
The advice of an old man: these “ugly things” often happen in the family, to be vigilant, it is difficult for the family to be successful
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So, the advice of this old man is quite reasonable.
They are the most important things to be aware of in a family.
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