Every pair of men and women in the hall of marriage, hope to be able to hold the hand of the son, with the son to grow old, but life is long, the road of love is difficult, the world’s things are not everything as it should be, some love and love, a lifetime together to grow old, while some couples deep love shallow, halfway strangers.
In fact, a marriage, whether it can go to the end, a couple, whether they can stay together until old age, will be affected by a variety of factors, such as personality, spiritual needs, material satisfaction and reconciliation of each other’s conflicts, etc., then, a marriage to the end, what is the most important impact factors? In this regard, the following 80-year-old man gave the best answer. The most important thing is that you can’t be afraid of the people.
An 80-year-old man said: “At the end of marriage, it’s the character that counts
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My neighbor, Grandma Wang, is 80 years old this year, and she has been happy and well all her life, and her husband is in love.
Don’t look at how happy she is now, but when she was young, her marriage almost broke up, yet it was her husband’s sense of responsibility for the marriage that kept her from making a mistake by putting the brakes on in time.
When she was young, she met her husband on a blind date, and from the first time she saw him, she had fallen in love with the tall, handsome, mature and stable man, and later met him three more times, and they were both satisfied with each other and settled on a marriage.
Till after the marriage, Wang Ying knew that her husband did not love her, he already had a childhood friend, a girlfriend who was deeply in love with her, only because the two had a falling out, his girlfriend gambled and left the country, her husband waited for her for three years, she still did not come back, and then her husband could not wring the force of his parents, he chose to go on a blind date, and finally married Wang Ying. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
An 80-year-old man said, “At the end of the day, marriage is all about character
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In the blink of an eye, they have been married for three years, and the two of them have a lively and lovely son. The first day, the husband looked a little strange, then Wang Ying knew that her husband’s childhood sweetheart had returned and asked him to meet him, and that night her husband was late and had not returned, although Wang Ying was very upset, but she pretended to know nothing about everything. Wang Ying thought: “is their own, is always their own, no one can snatch, not their own, strong stay also useless, bundle can not be a couple.” Until 11:00 p.m., her husband finally came back, Wang Ying to her husband’s late return pretended not to think, just help him pour a glass of water, said he had to rest early, the next day to work, and said nothing else. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Since then, Wang Ying’s husband has been more gentle and considerate to her than before, and Wang Ying has even seen the hope of love, feeling that her husband is finally slowly falling in love with her.
Suddenly one day, her husband’s first love found Wang Ying, and she huffed and puffed and said to her, “I didn’t lose to you, I just lost to his sense of responsibility. I know he still loves me deeply, but he never could let go of his responsibility to you and the children, to the marriage, so in the end I lost.” Wang Ying was quickly relieved about the incident.
An 80-year-old man came to the realization that in the end, marriage is all about character
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Slowly, the husband finally saw how good Wang Ying was and eventually fell deeply in love with her, and their life became happier and happier. Then one day, Wang Ying jokingly asked her husband, “If you still loved your first love, why didn’t you choose her in the end?” He had to admit that when he saw his first love again, his heart was indeed tempted, but at the critical moment, he remembered his wife, his children and his family, and it was his responsibility to his wife, his marriage and his family that finally woke him up and made him return to the way he was, so that he did not make a big mistake. It is only then that we have the happy life we have today.
Finally, Wang’s grandmother said, “In every marriage, it’s all about character, and a person with good character is responsible for the marriage and the family, and that’s a person worth trusting for life.”
An 80-year-old man said: “At the end of the marriage, it is the character that counts
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A person’s character has nothing to do with money, status, fame and fortune, it is a kind of goodness of heart that has been precipitated through the years, integrating morality, responsibility and cultivation. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
A person of good character will be able to stand the loneliness in the marriage and withstand the blandness, whether in adversity or in good times, he will always be with you, hand in hand, and with you for the rest of your life.
On the contrary, if a person’s character is not good, then his marital status is generally not satisfactory and the marriage will not last long.
An 80-year-old man said, “At the end of the day, marriage is all about character
Shakespeare said, “A bad marriage is like going to hell, a lifetime of chicken and goose fights, while a spouse who is happy with what he or she wants can be harmonious and happy for a hundred years. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Because a person with a bad character, it is difficult for him to have a clear bottom line in being a human being, and he will not know the sense of responsibility and morality that a person should have, and it is difficult for him to be responsible for his family and his lover in his marriage. So, when you get married, you must look at character, which is the most important thing.
Most relationships start with a face, get stuck in talent, stay true to character, and rest in companionship; every marriage that can support each other and grow old together ends up being inseparable from the character of both parties. The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
Life is long, marriage is not easy, we should always adhere to the principle of better than nothing, do not settle, do not make up, really looking for a person who understands you, loves you, loves you, respects you, and has a good character, together with the green silk twilight white head, this life together do not regret the initial heart.
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