Their relationship is more than red and blue, here is a review of the three most ambiguous relationships between men and women.
One of the most ambiguous relationships: brother sister (sister brother)
Ambiguity index: ****
Clearness index: ***
Relationship analysis:
For the “brother”, the existence of the little sister means that he has the desire to protect her.
The meaning is that he has the desire to protect her, when the male inner heroism needs to pour out, when he feels helpless and lonely, the “little sister” of good behavior and softness is often more comfortable than the general tender and considerate, and her worship of him, but also let him feel extra confident, just to meet a certain spirit of the man conquering desire. The first time I saw the film, I was able to see it.
For the “sister,” before there was a perfect boyfriend, the “brother” was a very sweet little heel who had the double benefit of being a man and a boy. When she is in trouble, he will not betray his vows, and when she is maternal, he becomes a cute and innocent “little thing”. For the “brother,” the “sister” is often a trustworthy, feminine woman.
Ambiguous relationship #2: Internet lovers
Ambiguity index: *****
Innocence index:**
Relationship analysis:
On the Internet, they “fell in love” and even had a wedding. The two strangers, who have never met, are dependent on each other and the source of their interest in word games. They are addicted to it, and the Internet makes them seem “perfect.
Unlike normal online relationships, these online lovers, most of whom don’t meet in person, rely on their imagination to create all sorts of romance and hypotheticals. Unlike real-life love, the cost of an online lover is very low, and there is no moral pressure.
Potential crisis:
Because all you love each other for is your imagination and the maze of words you create. So what if, in case of a meeting, the consequences are hard to imagine. If you find out that the one across from you is the same sex …… for men and women who are already married, a platonic affair is good, but if you don’t take good care of your computer, it can spill over into your real-life relationship as well.
Ambiguous Relationship #3: Sexual Partners
Ambiguous Index: *****
Innocence Index:*
Relationship Analysis:
Whitemills said in “Intimate Entanglements”: “One of the characteristics of modern man is that he is as eager to find wealth as he is to find it. unacknowledged intimate privations, to appear and cease at the right time.”
Today’s sexual partners have more in their meanings than just a physical solution to a physical problem, but more of a comfort to themselves and an escape from reality. After all, they are all people who are afraid of being lonely and even more afraid of others knowing they are lonely. We need love, and we can’t live without sex. Most of the time, sex and love are just as important. With a sexual partner, you at least have the warmth of your body to forget the loneliness of your mind for a while.
Potential crisis:
Russell has already said it all: “Love renews our whole being, just as rain after a great drought does for plants. The act of sex without love has no such power at all. After a moment of pleasure, what remains is weariness, disgust, and a sense of the emptiness of life.”