Ten years ago, I saw “Warm Inner Light” once, and I was too young to feel anything, but recently I watched it twice, and I felt the same way. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. We face the relationship of sadness and happiness, drink a glass of forgetfulness water, the other party left behind memories forever erased, how good it would be? The movie is a unique editing and filming technique to tell the story of a pair of lovers who met, fell in love, quarreled, separated, and then used the “science and technology” to completely forget.
The beauty of the beginning of a relationship and the pain of leaving it is brought to life by Kate Winslet, Kate Winslet, and Jim Carrey, who even had a face-lift for the film to make Joel (played by Jim) look thinner, more disheveled, and more depressed. The film is a great success, and Jim’s portrayal is very small.
Clem (played by Kate) is warm, unique, and fickle, in contrast to Joel’s withdrawn, introverted, and mediocre. We tend to be drawn to people with opposite personalities, and two people with very different personalities living together are destined to create countless frictions and disagreements.
Like most lovers, there will be the flatness and disagreement after the passion has passed, which then leads to one or both parties getting bored with each other and finally breaking up or adopting a negative and cold attitude, but after separation, they will remember all the good things they had, and that good memory and their own unwillingness keep torturing themselves, leading to the point of no return, when both Clem and Joel choose to use science and technology to The memories are slowly fading away, and Joel says a fond goodbye to Clem at the moment he is about to forget.
We don’t want to let go of that person, do we really want to let go of that person?
We can’t let go of that person, can we? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The inner regret is not very good to say goodbye to each other, that person has disappeared, as if many things are not explained clearly, and have lost contact with each other.
Clearing out just the memories, not the hearts. If you are meant to be together, you will likewise meet again and love each other again. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right person. The period of passionate love, that fantasy partner, may reveal unimaginable flaws in getting along. The way to join hands with each other, will also face many unexpected incidents. It takes more than just courage to guard your love, but a comprehensive set of relationship rules.
How to make a relationship work better?
One, to build a healthy relationship, we need to lower our expectations of each other
The reason why gender relationships are unbalanced is because we expect too much from each other, we all want the other half to be as gentle and considerate as the women in the TV series, to be reasonable, to know how to read and write, and to know how to manage money and run a household, while men should have a successful career, spoil their wives, hold household chores, and not smoke. The man should be successful in his career, spoil his wife, hold household chores, not smoking, not drinking, not socializing, as the saying goes, there is no expectation of no harm. The real life is not so perfect, we are ordinary people, lower expectations, no matter how the other party does not perform as you want, you should also think it is normal inside, know how to think differently, those ordinary small days can slowly live peacefully.
Two, do not intend to change each other
The biggest taboo is to intend to change each other, all of each other’s flaws are beautiful when you love each other. For example: he smokes, you will think it is very handsome, despite the usual dad in front of you smoking, you have a lot of hate, but in love with all the shortcomings are also seen as advantages, but when entering the marriage, it all changes, we often see the marriage object as “enemies” as well as getting along, his smoking becomes the most annoying place for you. You regret that you were blind. As you keep trying to change the other person, you are trying in vain. When you met him, he was already a smoker and did not cheat you, but you were willing to accept it yourself, so don’t have a problem with it after you get married. Before falling in love you should have to analyze whether the other party is really suitable for you before falling in love, instead of getting the other party to make changes after finding problems after getting married.
Three, restrain your temper, don’t be capricious and presumptuous
A big temper and a heavy tone are the fatal wound in a relationship between two sexes, no matter who you are facing, the one who loses his temper is not right, so after entering a marriage relationship, you should learn to accommodate each other, tolerate each other, and be able to learn to control your emotions are a learning curve, capricious is just an act done by young people, the sign of a mature person is to stop being capricious. The sign of a mature person is to stop being capricious, to know how to be tolerant and understanding, to learn to respond to things in a mature and calm way, to live a lifetime, to have a happy family, is the highest level of life.
Fourth, emphasis on communication, while giving each other a second chance
The relationship between the sexes is a process of “fighting at the end of the bed, and at the end of the bed!
The process of “killing” the person on the pillow numerous times in the life of each person’s impulse, communication is really how important, speak properly, calmly, calmly and peacefully communicate, to make the big things small to small things into nothing, if that party has done wrong, do not immediately break up, should give each other a chance, give each other a chance to correct the The first thing you should do is to give each other a chance to correct the situation.
How will Joel and Clem end up? I’ll leave you in suspense!
The lyrics that keep echoing at the end of the story: “Like needing sunshine, I need your love. Everyone will understand in time. ……”
All the encounters in the world are long goodbyes. It is better to lose naturally than to forget deliberately.