After marriage, the love, sexual attraction, etc. will gradually fade in married life, and men are often new and tired of the old animals, always figure freshness, many times the marriage added to his not pleasure but bondage, and women often change themselves in life but do not know how to self The charm of the excavation, often after marriage becomes yellow face, which intensifies the husband’s disgust with himself.
Life requires women to constantly adjust themselves to maintain their attractiveness and psychological edge in married life. Consider these points:
After an early bedtime breakup, a marriage is stronger when you get married.
In the relationship period, getting laid early breaks up early. In statistical analysis, couples who only get laid when they get married are the ones who will be stronger.
Someone once told me that a woman has never let a man look at her mystery area in her life, only letting him “grope in the dark” because the more men want to, the more they can’t, every time there is passion. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into, and it’s easy to go straight into someone else’s backyard.
Two women don’t let men look at you with stereotypes.
In dressing moderately fashionable and sexy, which will give men visual changes, women should know how to learn, know how to change, know how to tolerate, know how to change and not change, know the art of emotion. In life, concepts, attitude towards things, etc., there is constant change, which will make men feel they must give you more attention, otherwise, they can not keep up with your changes. Women should know how to emotion, to be when healthy for the beauty of such a woman, it is easy for men to see her glory. Less as a flat woman, more layers, there must be more qualities, but also more sensible and watchable.
Three, don’t just be informed, but also have principles.
Informed and attentive can make men feel attentive, but if they are only informed and attentive, or even indiscriminately tolerant, they will be indulgent and will make men too relieved to cherish them. Contemporary women, but also to be able to literary and martial arts, the text can be soft and warm, martial arts can deter men. The woman deterred men on the principle, on the principle of having an attitude, it will make the lower half of the man has a red line, the concept of the bottom line.
Four let men know that you are not unwanted.
In marriage, both men and women are prone to jealousy, especially if a third party has an advantage over you. A man or woman with jealousy may produce two effects: one is uneasy about you, and bring about the tossing of your body and mind. A few narrow-minded men may produce domestic violence, which is due to the problem caused by the lack of limits of personality disposition. Secondly, to some other people, it is highly likely to change perspective, knowing that a thing is too easy to lose, you have to clench your hand tight. Using this law, it is important to note that jealousy is only psychological and sometimes cannot be contrary to the principle of trust. You are a person of principle, but that is not the same thing as someone liking you or pursuing you, and if you mix those together, it brings you a negative effect.
Five should have the certainty of moments of trouble and the memory of romantic moments.
Definition in times of trouble may touch a man once, and most likely this time is forever. Having the memories of romantic moments is a scale of your emotional level. The relationship between a couple is often bottomed out with the heart of the moment of distress and elevated with the scale of romantic memories. As long as there are these two points, the feelings may talk about firm and beautiful. If the couple can fall in love for life, these two things, is often a foundation. I often say that simple women are more likely to be happy in life because they are more likely to have a fixed mind in times of trouble and are the easiest for men to enjoy romantic moments with relaxed minds and bodies.
Six to be an affectionate little woman, don’t always get upset and talk with a stern face.
Happiness can be infectious, and when you are happy, you have more charm. Women should learn to moderate pampering, small women achieve big men, but also learn to shed tears for men, rather than moving for their own tears, in order to engrave the traces of love on the man’s heart space. The woman has to learn to create interest, not to the man’s childishness or romantic giggling.
Women should learn to adapt to multiple roles in front of men, first, you are the lover, the lover; at the same time, in front of Oedipal men, you are the “mother”, in front of small men, you are the sister, in front of the big man, you are willing to be a little sister. Without this role change and diversity, your marriage will not be interesting. In the world of two people, dealing with things more adult, dealing with people more childish, to do mutual appreciation, mutual need, mutual reliance, that love for life is not really a luxury talk. Only the most blessed of people have this simple wisdom.
After marriage, women should not change themselves too much because of family ties, and properly explore their own charm, seduction is also the main means, men are greedy for new, women can also start from this aspect, couples add some passion is necessary.