Breakups between lovers are mostly impulsive and irrational, and it is easy to regret afterwards. Fortunately, this impulsive breakup, love still exists most have room for redemption. So, how to salvage love after a breakup? What should I do if I want to get back together after a breakup?
How to get back after a breakup
1. Give each other time to cool down
After the breakup want to get back together, to first cold treatment, do not immediately back to find someone else, to give him at least a week or two of buffer time. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
For example, after a breakup he won’t answer your phone calls, won’t respond to your texts, or won’t meet you or even hear anything about you. Then that’s when you must first go cold turkey. Leave the opportunity to cross paths with him or her, otherwise it’s really impossible to successfully win back when you’ve lost even the chance to cross paths.
2. Analyze the reasons for the breakup
When you want to get back after a breakup, the Finding the reason why you broke up in the first place is the most crucial. Only when you find the reason, you can prescribe the right medicine. Think about your feelings with both sides of the family whether there is a relationship; each other’s character; or the reality of the conditions. If you can fix it, try to fix it and communicate well.
And then, of course, consider whether your relationship can be restored and if you do get back together, you can go back to the way things were before. This is something you have to think through, not to make up today and then have a breakup two days later.
3. Try to change yourself
Often when breaking up he is not The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not in love with you. For example, she used to break up because you smoked and drank or played games to look bad, then you change for her and quit smoking, drinking or playing games.
especially if you still have hope for the relationship, don’t give up, it’s best to save love with love.
4. Prove it with real actions
When you want to get back together after a breakup It is best to prove your heart for TA with practical actions. For example, with her best friend relationship closer, intentionally or unintentionally inquire about her situation, but to pretend to be unconcerned, or you listen to her initiative to tell you. Secretly observe her whereabouts, waiting for the opportunity to move. If you find an opportunity, be bold and do it, touch her with your heart and let her know that you always have her in your heart.
3 kinds of situations to eliminate after a breakup to get back
Many people When faced with a breakup, choose to be depressed and try to win the sympathy of the other party. In fact, this will only make people disgusted. So, the following three situations after the breakup want to salvage people must eliminate to do:
1, do not humble begging to get back together
After the breakup, it is useless to behave pitifully and too eager to get back together, which will instead make him not cherish you more and get further and further away from you. And it will also make him more convinced of how right it is to leave now.
2. Sacrificing yourself is not acceptable
Two people “Sacrificing your ego” means sacrificing your happiness and joy to satisfy your significant other, to unconditionally meet your partner’s demands on you. The more you get back together, the more unprincipled it is to “trample” yourself, which will make men look down on you and move away from you.
3. Your love is suffocating
“I love you”, “I can’t do it without you”, “I can’t live without you”, is not what the other party wants to hear after a breakup. Or call him every day to harass him and tell him how much you love him is even more unacceptable. This kind of suffocating love tends to push him further and further away.