In today’s post-80s and post-90s, although there are not too many traditional men, old ideas still have a great influence, and the correct understanding of bad habits is important for building a harmonious marriage. The minimum three principles of human interaction “equality, respect, tolerance”, in fact, in the life of the couple how to properly use is not an easy task, efforts will have hope, cheer! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
One, wives should cook, do the laundry and bring up the kids
Subject to the traditional The idea of women taking over the household chores has a deep foundation in the Chinese mind. Even if you look at your wife’s busy schedule, you will not feel a little bit guilty about reading the newspaper, but rather, you will feel at ease. The first thing you need to do is to take care of yourself.
Two, wives should do whatever I tell them to do
Men and women are The status of women has always been low, except during matriarchal societies. In ancient China, women were bound by the “three obediences and four virtues”, which are “to obey the father before marriage, to obey the husband after marriage, and to obey the son after the husband’s death”; and the four virtues are “women’s virtue, women’s speech, women’s appearance, and women’s work”. The current status of women has indeed improved, requiring men to “three obedient four virtues” also has a new meaning: what is “three obedient”?
“Four Virtues”? It is “remember your birthday, know your mind, spend your money, and endure the beating”. The actual fact is that a deep-rooted influence is subtle, even if the surface is improved, the substance of the demise still needs a long process of understanding, now is still a transition period. The wife is a tool for ejaculation, a machine for housework, are a manifestation of inequality and disrespect, such as: forceful demands without considering each other’s consent, hard work even during menstruation, etc.
Three, wives should tell me everything
Wives Doing anything has to be reported to me, how many gifts were sent to friends for treats, how many things were mentioned to my mother’s family, how much it cost to buy clothes, who said what in life, etc., must be controlled freely and never hidden. The wife should have no secrets, life at most only cashier, accounting do not want to serve. When you do something wrong, you can scold and beat it if you want.
Fourth, the wife should be a lifelong chaste widow
Wife The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. With male colleagues to speak can not laugh, but also to keep a distance, can not chat alone, not to say pornography. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Five, the wife should only care about the in-laws regardless of the mother’s family
Married out daughters splash out water. In the feudal society, men are inferior to women, and after the daughter is married, she has no relationship with her mother’s family, and her family’s property has no relationship with her mother’s family, and she is no longer a member of her mother’s family. The woman from the moment she passes through the door, she can’t bother with the affairs of her mother’s family, otherwise she will eat the inside out.