In a society where there are so many leftover women, we not only wonder what is wrong with everyone, but is it a good thing to be left behind? But those unmarried women who are already over 30 can’t help but shout, “What’s wrong with us being 30, we’re still a flower”!
It is said that when God created man, he took one of the ribs of the man Adam and created the woman Eve, so man and woman began to look for each other. The first time the company was founded, the company was able to provide a new product to the market. Humans also invented such words: love – looking for a rib (body); marriage – transplant surgery; divorce – rejection, failed surgery. Just a body and a rib, how much temptation, so that the world will never be at peace – the woman this “rib”, no man that body can live? Although it is said that “when man thinks, God laughs”, but once such thinking has begun it is impossible not to continue, so there is such a group of “independent ribs” – vow not to marry the The woman who wants to be celibate.
The voice of a 30-year-old woman
The first definition men use when talking about celibacy is “can’t get married”, and then the theme goes deeper when talking about a particular woman: “that kind of woman can’t afford it” or “who dares to want it?
The first definition of a man talking about a woman’s celibacy is “unmarriageable”, and then the theme goes deeper to talk about a particular woman as “that woman can’t afford it” or “who dares to want it”. “Married out” and “who dare to” the subtext is only two points: one is this woman is a perverse, difficult to be a woman; the second is the woman “conditions” too good, men dare not marry. The latter is the case for most of the modern “independent ribs”; there are ideas, talents, status, and earning power, in other words, they are “the main ones who can live quite well on their own.”
But a woman is still a woman, and she can’t get rid of the fact that she’s never been in love or had a family – which means she’s been looking for one. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to offer a wide range of products and services.
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In fact, men are very realistic, he may not ask for much. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. I’m a woman who’s not happy with an ordinary life, and I’m really not quite ready for marriage yet.
I always thought I would never have the heartache of thinking about someone again, except for the youthful indiscretion of my first love, until the fall before last.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
I’m the kind of woman who doesn’t like to talk to strangers, but he’s an exception. I had only been a designer for a short time when he came to the office to see a colleague of mine, who happened to be away. I always liked October afterwards because I first met him in October. He was very tall, 1.86 meters, very thin, and for some reason, when I saw him, I felt that this person would have a story with me, a feeling I had never had before.
He asked me for a business card when he didn’t find anyone and left me his address. He inadvertently left his phone behind, and he called later. So we got to know each other.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
Then he took me home in his car.
The first time I got home, he called again and said it was the weekend and we should go see a movie. So we made another date to meet at the theater. At night, treading water. In I was something rare. I knew I was in love with him. Do you believe in love at first sight? I never believed it before this.
Our relationship as lovers was very brief, but how wildly I lost sleep over him at first is still fresh in my mind. I had written a book of things about my feelings for him and bits and pieces with him to give to him on some anniversary, but missed birthdays, missed Valentine’s Day, missed everything that could be taken as a holiday. I even had a feeling I would give it to him when he got married, subconsciously hoping for a “runaway groom” story. The truth is, he got engaged earlier this year to a girl 8 years younger than him. I forgot to tell you that he is the same age as me. Nowadays, it’s hard to have a compatible unmarried person of the opposite sex at my age!
Perhaps I’m not aggressive enough for marriage. I never even confessed my love for him, and sometimes I feel a little sorry for him. I’ve loved a boy who wrote poetry since I was 16, and broke up with him after 7 years of love. Love has always followed after that, and I guess I’m really an easily moved person. I expect miracles to happen, and I often create them. There are many women my age who envy me. When they are dragged down by their husbands and children to become the flowers of tomorrow, they always say, how good you are, so young. But sometimes I envy them, too, when they have hard work to do at home. Just kidding.
I wonder if you ever feel that way? There comes a point when a woman wants to marry someone, and I did, at the age of 25. He was studying science and technology. I wanted to end my attachment to the art crowd and end that insecurity. But we broke up after 4 years of living together, when the house we were going to marry was almost renovated, neither of us was very rich, and everything was done by hand. You know what? Wallpaper, paint, chisel walls, even to the construction site to pull sand, we all do it ourselves. The feeling of being really tired and not being able to stand up straight.
Suddenly one day he said he was breaking up with me, saying that the things he used to like most about me, like being able to write novels, paint, smoke, have passion, all the pretty alternative stuff anyway, were useless in married life. This I later understood, such a Shanghai boy, hope is extremely stable and smooth life. A nap, playing computer at home, or drinking tea and playing mahjong with his parents – this is his ideal life. I don’t think I can, really, even though I have spent a lot of effort to learn mahjong in order to make him happy, but every time I play with his parents, I feel helpless, that is not the way I like to live, too far from the dream. But now that I think about it, maybe it’s not a bad marriage.
That blow made my consciousness extremely clear, and I finally knew that I was a woman who was not fit for marriage. Now, I just work, and it’s only the busyness that makes me happy.
Thirty unmarried women in men’s eyes
The more mature, the more beautiful
Project Manager of Liang Jianjun Real Estate Company
Most women in the last century lived ordinary lives: as a daughter, as a wife, as a wife, as a woman. Daughters, wives, mothers, everything is logical.
The first time I saw a woman, I was able to get to know her mother, and I was able to get to know her son.
Thankfully, all this has changed, and women are beginning to realize that they are first a person, and then a woman. Women don’t mind fulfilling a woman’s vocation as a wife and mother, without giving up the rights that come with being a human being.
I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but the days of women fighting for their lives over the difference of one year are finally over, and it’s no longer popular to play innocent with two braids like Britney Spears. Maggie Cheung is known to everyone, it has seen her, you know that the beauty of ten to twenty years old and thirty years old is completely different things. Zhang Manyu debuted quite early, starred in countless commercial films, known as the “youthful jade girl”. The vague impression is that she is always heavily made-up, silly and laughing, and there is no difference with all the jade girls on the screen. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, the “Fancy”.
Now it’s the men who should be worried. If you’re past 30, your career is useless, your personality is still in childhood, your personal life is not enough, and you’re starting to get a beer belly, what’s the point of talking about a flower?