The following six reasons for men to cheat, may be right.
I. Sexual disharmony
Sex cannot be separated in marriage, and a quality, satisfying sex life is a big condition for a good married life. If the couple has a long time sexual life is not harmonious, then the married life is also not enough beautiful and happy. The long years of marriage will be in love, newlywed passion wears clean, the husband holds his wife’s hand is like the left hand holding the right hand. Sexual life needs to be exciting and fresh to maintain the passion. The traditional Chinese concept of sex confines many wives, who believe that sex relies on their husbands to be dominant, and that they do not need to spend effort to find interest and fun.
Two, the pace of life is stressful
For the sake of the family’s economic prosperity and the material security of married life, both spouses have to go out to work. To earn money to support the family, the work is stressful, and both spouses are prone to bring their work emotions back home, exhausted. And at this time, men and women are most likely to produce conflicts, and emotions will be more irritable than usual. Generate friction also do not have the heart to solve through good communication. The first thing you need to do is to have sex, which sometimes becomes a stress reliever that many women fail to take advantage of.
Three, the lack of care and understanding
Man is the backbone of the family, is the core of the work, which is the long-established social formation of men’s burden. The man shoulders the busy work and family responsibilities, but also has a vulnerable side, but usually they choose to be silent, in fact, is very much in need of the wife’s active care. And women also have their own family role, home is also a large number of things, there is an oversight is inevitable. And some of the chores of daily life are too much, always lose sight of the other. It is recommended that the young couple often turn off the computer and TV, live unplugged, go out and have some fun, and then get back to the days when they were in love.
Fourth, the wife’s financial management is too tight
In general, most of the money earned by men is controlled by women. The woman’s heart is thinking that the money earned is supposed to take care of the family, of course, to master the economic power of the home, you can grasp the lifeline of the man, no money, see how you go out to fool around. And men also want to fight for their rights, move will also leave some private money, but it is best to hide a little hidden, caught can not be good. This problem is very annoying, the money is more trouble, but if there is no money, will be a bigger thing, enough depression. The woman looks at the money tightly does not matter, but must pay attention to a degree, grasp a bad, money is retained, but the more men’s hearts run farther away.
Five, work social needs
Man work can not be separated from the dinner, work social essential to eat and drink, wine and wine, sometimes to do some pseudo-heart things, of course, also have their own tiktok, in order to work, in order to get each other’s trust, have to do some of the unseen things, so men are The actual fact is that there is really no way to do this, so just turn a blind eye to it, because too much of it will hurt you.
Six, nostalgic youthful flutter
Don’t think that men really love the young women around them, like such and such a silly girl? In fact, men only want to find the shadow of youth and good memories, men are sometimes very simple, often need only a feeling, follow the feeling, accidentally will also be lost in their own. But don’t worry, one day, when men find themselves already very not, they learn to do it with their tails between their legs.