The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China is a super difficult to read, many women do not ask their mother-in-law to treat them like children, just to get along harmoniously. In fact, it is really not difficult to get along with the mother-in-law, if the woman can insist on the following 4 points, then even if it is not a good daughter-in-law, it is also a daughter-in-law with no harm.
One, the male side of the female family is treated differently
The male side that is their own family you have to take care of the family, what money ah food ah even needle and thread you have to take care of the family, if you take care of the family that you are a good daughter-in-law.
Two, the most common meal
Table with the father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law, husband and daughter-in-law, serving rice is the daughter-in-law, eating others can be single-minded but the daughter-in-law can not, whether the father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law, or husband finished eating a bowl you have to go to this person to go to a bowl of food, eat dishes, sister-in-law if you are turning dishes to choose what she likes to eat The mother-in-law will immediately clip to the dishes she wants to eat to the bowl, and will say eat more of what you love. Daughters-in-law can not be so reckless, not to mention turning dishes to eat, that is, the most delicious dishes on the table you do not clip to the third time, you clip more than once there will be a pair of cold eyes stinging you, even if you do not say to your face behind you will also say to people that you are lazy, eating regardless of whether others eat only to have eaten all the good. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three, the New Year’s Eve must be in the man’s house
The New Year’s Eve must be in the man’s house, which is a male’s idea of inferiority, why must it be in the man’s house, the woman’s family does not want to reunite at the New Year’s Eve festival? A lot of men said a lot of reasons that women should go back to the male side of the New Year, but also quoted the words of Confucius Mencius and do not know that men are inferior to women is the work of such people. But in recent years, some young couples who are only children will take turns to go to each other’s parents’ home for New Year’s Eve every year, and the ones who have plenty of time will also run to both on a holiday, although they are a bit tired, but everyone is comfortable in their hearts, nothing to complain about.
Fourth, do housework
Wash dishes, laundry, cooking, sanitation before no matter who did it now The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. If you want the mother-in-law’s son in-law’s husband to help a little bit that can really want to rebel, that mother-in-law heartache does not scold you for three days lazy mother-in-law, to your mother’s family to lead back to the strange. But what is it, now women earn money to support the family, men work time women also work, men come home from work time women have to do cattle and horses next. Why can’t we all do our part regardless of gender? Women wash things clean on the laundry and dishes, men on the cooking and mopping, this is not good. But how many Chinese men do this, and how many Chinese mothers-in-law can tolerate such a division of labor and cooperation of the daughter-in-law it. “How can you let him do the housework when men are the sky?” That’s what a mother-in-law will scream at you.