I’ve been around a couple of boys. One is not much money, good character, good to me, definitely a home-based type, but the appearance is not very satisfactory to me, so I do not feel much; one is financially well-off, excellent appearance, a little self-centered, character rough and tumble, very much like me, I also like him, but I am more delicate minded, can not accept his carelessness in some things; another is very rich, very much want to realize with me Self-worth, but I think he is too active to cover. Which one do you think is more likely or more suitable to be with me?
I think you should choose the first one. Because you are very controlling and like to have a lot of power. If you’re with the second one, two self-centered people are bound to bump into each other a lot. If you get together with the third, you want to cover him at the beginning, and he certainly does not want to be covered by you, the competition is also very hard. The first is frankly worse conditions, he faces fewer choices, if you get your love, but also will not have very high requirements for you, control is naturally yours. You may say that you like both control and money, and also the excellent appearance of men. But the problem is that as long as you still like control, even if you start with #2 or #3, sooner or later when things don’t work out, the money and beauty won’t be yours.
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My husband and I have been married for 7 years and he loves me and loves me a lot, but there is no way to get along with my parents, it’s really kind of a fire and water situation. I’m in a sandwich cookie state all day, very tired, physically and mentally exhausted. As I get older and watch my friends become mothers one by one, my desire to be a mother becomes stronger and stronger, but my husband has a genetic disease, although the probability of this disease is very small, but it exists after all, I am afraid of any further problems, parents and his world war is certainly inevitable. I’m confused and don’t know where to go ……
I don’t want to be a sandwich, I have to be a cookie, either the cookie on top or the cookie on the bottom, and firmly choose a camp. If you love him, get on his side. Two people love each other, and it will last for 7 years, which is likely where your future happiness lies, and the parents’ attitude should have been reduced to chicken scratch a long time ago. If you can’t get along, don’t get along, and if your parents are going to continue to make things difficult, you need to let them know that the kids have been married for 7 years and they can’t change anything. If you want to end the world war, you might as well help one side defeat the other.
As for his genetic disorder, if you’re worried about it, don’t worry about it for fear of upsetting your parents, you should worry about yourself, worry about your future children, and turn to modern medicine.