Mouths don’t say, but hearts do, men play dumb and women wonder blind. Most men aren’t as eager to get into lockdown as one might think, and that’s before they keep their eyes wide open for it. So, what makes you stand out is the key, and whether or not you can be the “perfect” girlfriend for him depends on it.
Mommy’s Big Boy
One of the biggest fears men swear by in life is that their girlfriends won’t get along with their mothers. But dramatic fate has a way of playing tricks on people, leaving them caught in the middle as the punching bag. According to a recent cosmo poll, 59% of men said they would like to date a girl with a similar temperament to their mother.
You can take care of yourself
While it’s natural for men to take care of women, there’s no reason to think that men should always be the “boss” and take care of everything.
Men like to behave like gentlemen in front of women: driving you around in crowded public places, getting tickets to your favorite pop band, putting a surround sound stereo in your new DVD player. But if you don’t show any gratitude and instead think it’s a man’s job, alarm bells will go off in his head. The new DVD player is a great way to get the most out of your life.
In other words, if you’re treating him like an ATM machine, waiting for him to do his job with two large pieces of overweight luggage, thinking you’re giving him a chance to show his “manhood”, you’re making a big mistake! This is not the way to get his testosterone going.
Value the pre-date “rituals”
It’s probably because of vanity, men are more or less in competition with each other, and it makes them look good to have a beautiful girlfriend on their arm! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Many women think that men like to go on dates with model-quality girls or girls who are extraordinarily well-dressed, but in fact, men are not that sophisticated. You can’t blame men for being too demanding about a woman’s appearance, even if it’s intimate again, nice feeling is always nice, there are cool guys to snuggle with you, and you can’t bear to let him fall down in front of others, right?
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You like to play that game
There is no doubt that the “Sex “enthusiasm index is an important prey indicator for men looking for.
If he is made to feel that you are not sexually interested in this area and cannot satisfy his needs from the very beginning of the fling, he will never look favorably on the relationship. The sooner you are prepared, the better your chances of continuing the relationship, and the less likely he will become a “disgruntled man” after marriage.
In addition, you should also pay attention to establishing physical intimacy. If he likes to touch you or twist you, don’t shove him roughly aside and leave him in the dust; even if you are sitting at a bar, you can rub your feet against him; when you pass through a narrow corridor, use your breasts to touch his arms when he is not ready ……
Passing the olive branch
Men love a woman who is reasonable and doesn’t hold a grudge. You should let him know that you are a girl who knows how to forgive.
Many men have dated a girl who has admitted her mistakes and apologized, more than once, and she still won’t let it go. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So women should learn to forget before the war of the roses breaks out. Tell him how you turned around and threw in the towel as soon as you got into an argument with your family; tell him you hate irrational fighting. Life is not always sunshine and laughter, some small conflicts can not be more normal, happened to be brave to face, listen to his true thoughts, together to solve the dispute. If the anger is bad and you can never forgive each other, you have to weigh what is most important: the relationship between the two, or the fact that you have the upper hand?
Always be on his side
A man needs allies, a woman by his side to say “I believe in you!”
It’s not about bowing down to him, being subservient, or ranting at his friends when he’s being pushed around, it’s about supporting him wholeheartedly and making him feel that your heart is always on his side. For example, tell him that his boss cutting his project budget this year is not a good sign; tell him that vodka mixed with beer is his brilliant invention; or cheer hard from the sidelines when the company has a soccer league.
When men are competing with each other in the mall, it’s hard to get a wholehearted support from the same sex. More or less is a kind of comfort. Self-esteem of the man, often acting indifferent, more unlikely to take the initiative to “ask” women’s “sponsorship”. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.
Make up your mind, NO!
It’s good to have a woman around you who wants you to explain everything, it’s really annoying.
Women have a common problem – they ponder over men’s words and actions, and dig to figure out what the “subtext” is behind them.
When it comes to acting the way you do, men are simple! The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on this. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. Believe him, but also give yourself some more confidence. Bathing in the river of love, mutual trust is also safe, safe is also happy. If the suspicion is too heavy, emotions like the stock market market fluctuate up and down, up and down, the tolerance of the strongest people are afraid to eat!