How can you know what kind of person a man really is? It’s really simple. The most important belongings of a man, such as cell phones and diaries, different styles and colors can reveal what kind of personality this person has and what is on his mind.
1, clothing
In this world, beauty is not a woman’s The men also have the same fashion vision and pursuit. They will buy different clothes according to the occasion they are going to go with, will also set to go to do hair, will also go to the cosmetics store to buy a variety of different cosmetics. So, like girls, they also stand in front of the mirror for a long time before going out, messing with their hair, fixing their clothes, putting on makeup, and spraying some perfume, which can attract the eyes of many girls.
If the company requires a suit and tie at work, it is rare to see them wearing the same shirt for two days, because men who love beauty pay attention to the details of life, pay attention to their own taste, although they have the pursuit of fashion but not blindly spend money.
2, the common bag
To be a good wife good The girl friend, should learn how to care about her husband or boyfriend’s work. Sometimes men do not let their women worry, no matter how much aggravation they suffer at work will not say a word, just want you to be happy every day. So, understand the man’s work, care about the pressure that men take on outside can look through his briefcase, you can tomorrow he is busy every day for the home what, do not come back every day to pick up his briefcase to put on the desk.
This will not only be a good and understanding wife, but will also help to manage the relationship with each other.
3. The game console you used to like or are liking
Playing games, listening to music, watching anime, and watching football are all ways men use to relieve the stress of work, so when you find your husband still has a stash of video games he played as a child, don’t just think about him obsessing over them like a little kid. In fact, once may also be really fond of the game, and now should be a good memory, just now do not want to throw away the same, just like some people love books, home from childhood to learn the textbooks have not sold a book. For the fast pace of life now, the man hid the childhood game machine, but also can become a way to relieve the pressure of work, and can recall the fun of childhood, but also take you to play together he had heroes to win the game, look at such happy him, you will not be happy?
4. Pictures taken with your own digital camera
Some men The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services that are designed to meet the needs of the market. In fact, there is nothing wrong with narcissistic men, as long as they do not narcissistic to the appetite of others, there is nothing wrong with them, because they have a set of self-affirming methods and statements, so that they become confident but not ostentatious, satisfied with their looks and body but not overly boastful, they love beauty, love themselves, not subject to the influence of others, and can entertain themselves to infect others.
5. Information saved in mobile phones
Mobile phones as now The most convenient and easy way to hide a person’s secrets is to use an indispensable communication tool, otherwise why would so many people put a lock on their phones? It is to prevent their privacy from being published outside. If you find your boyfriend has any abnormal time, you can also observe the phone to get some information, such as there is nothing abnormal information or abnormal call records. Of course, if you do this often your boyfriend will certainly feel resentful of such distrust, so don’t do it in front of him.
6. Paper notebooks
Journaling is the best way to record old memories. The way to record the past, the time has passed and then open to see will find that the original has experienced so many things, they have turned from a child into an adult and then into a husband and a father. Men are not like women, you can meet a good friend to talk to each other, they often like to invite a few friends out to rub a meal, drunk to the intestines of the time to say a sentence or two. So, to understand the man, you can start from his diary, and the diary is quietly hidden in a drawer or in every corner of the room, may spend more time, you can find the treasure you want. If you inadvertently discover his hidden secrets, don’t blame him for hiding them from you; well-intentioned lies are just trying to protect your easily wounded heart.
7. A common communication tool
Sometimes with twitter is more than a lover, you have to use twitter at work, you still use twitter after work when you have something to do, whether it’s talking or doing other things. So, we spend a large part of our time in twitter, and what happens in chat is unpredictable for both men and women who are looking for an online lover in chat. If a man can resist the temptation, such a man is just a pastime, if a man can’t resist the temptation, it’s like an anthill slowly pecking away at this marriage. So, from time to time, a woman can use a man’s twitter to see if there are any special people always looking to chat with her, or observe what special actions a man takes while chatting, whether you will immediately turn off the monitor as soon as you walk in, etc. If you find something unusual, you should try to make every effort to protect your marriage.
8. Commemorative items
around ’04, ’05 The heart folded items to their boyfriends or girlfriends as a token is particularly popular, the party who received the gift whether or not the relationship is lovers will collect well in the wallet or folder in the book, to treasure, to now there are still couples do so, think that the year childish or do not know what to do, is ultimately a chapter in the youth. So, when you find such worthless things have been quietly in his wallet, and he especially cherished, do not complain about his nostalgia for the past and ignore your feelings, just about everyone needs to keep some past memories, warm lonely road. And you should feel grateful that he is at least a man of great affection, even if the future of your path is not so certain, but you can imagine that sometime in the future when he thinks of you, you will feel warm.
9. Hidden condoms
If he secretly bought condoms and hid them without mentioning it to you, and you inadvertently find out, don’t rush to pin bad thoughts on him, such as whether he often sleeps with other women or something like that. Speculation will be filled in the world of two people’s feelings. Why not think calmly about why this is based on his daily habits. Or you can communicate with him and choose to believe the reasons he said, in combination with future observations to give yourself some time to judge, do not rush to conclusions. Generally, couples use condoms when having sex for safety reasons, and if they don’t want a baby yet, then this is just the right preparation.
Looking at these personal items around him is one thing, but on the other hand, you have to look at him in the context of his usual attitude towards people to really understand this person, and it’s not right to judge people by their things.