There is a kind of man woman must not drink, this kind of man is poison. The woman who has tasted it will be cloaked in her hair and her soul will be scattered. This kind of men are distributed at all levels, as if they were born with the sole mission of playing with more women.
Men like this should be swatted to death with a fly swatter when they first appear. They use some of the same dialogue for all women for various purposes, and it has almost become a mantra for such toxic men. When you hear one of the men around you say these things to you, beware!
Mantra #1: “You look a lot like my first love!”
Toxic men make such confessions about their targets when they first lock them in. Women will always naively think that a man with his first love on his mind means that the man is very long-suffering, and that first love feels the most beautiful. Since he looks like his first love, it means that at this moment, in his eyes, he is the most beautiful! He will cherish himself like his first love …… wake up, how do you know if the man in front of you has a first love, or his first love is not tired of him and then a foot tucked away? The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
The good girl fights back: “No way! I think I look more like your mom!”
Mantra #2: “I’ll buy you anything you want, as long as you’re happy!”
Toxic men who are financially well off don’t say this at all, and go straight for the gift offensive until they smash the woman unconscious. Usually put out this kind of words, are low-end toxic man, wallet is not bulging enough, also want to learn the noble son of a thousand gold to buy a smile. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
After all, it’s just a blank check to make you happy, and when you get serious and ask him to cash it, he’ll say, “I can’t believe you’re just a materialistic woman. …… “The actual fact is that the actual woman who does not care about money will not ask them to realize the phrase, to realize the phrase of the woman they know they can not get on, so, not to eat mutton also get you a fishy, to you on a “gold snob” crime to see how you bear?
The good woman fights back: “I earn enough to buy whatever I want, you should save your money to buy yourself a retirement insurance.”
Mantra #3: “Do you like me? I dare to chase you if you like me!”
What kind of bullshit logic is that? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Yes, he will explain to you that “we men are very dignified, if doomed to failure, it is better to give up early”, think about it, this kind of man does not even have the courage to assume the failure of courtship, you still expect him to assume what? He is just trying to set your bottom line and use your good feelings for him. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The good girl fights back: “I don’t have time to be bored with you, you don’t have to chase me!”
Mantra #4: “I am very sincere!”
He only said half of this sentence, the second half should be “I’m very sincere in wanting to sleep with you”. But in the eyes of the woman who took the bait, they probably said, “I’m serious about dating you (and marrying you)!” It’s especially funny that toxic men always cite “Look how many texts I’ve sent you, how many meals I’ve bought you, how many things I’ve bought you ……” as an argument when they say this.
Come on! When a man counts all the things he’s done for you one by one, don’t you think it’s more like settling scores after the fact? The same is true when you believe in his “sincerity” and also take off your pants to be exhausted by him in bed, you will wake up: so he is really “sincere” in the matter of sex!
The good girl fights back: “Why don’t you just say what you really want?”
Mantra #5: “I must not be your type, or you’d be in my arms, right?”
What looks like a wounded puppy pathetically begging you for your attention is actually a sheepishly sarcastic remark. The actual fact is that the actual woman is not a good person. In short, as long as he has one of these two, you should meekly send him to the door and let him fish.
You may think he’s being self-conscious in front of you, begging you for comfort and acceptance, but in reality his subtext is “You’re a slut, and you’re pretending with me! The actual subtext is “you’re a slut and you’re pretending! If it happens to be to your liking, you would have washed up in bed waiting for me!”
The good girl shot back, “Sorry, I don’t understand the animal’s question, do you speak human?”
Mantra #6: “I actually have a girlfriend, but it’s not a good relationship and I’m about to break up!”
A toxic man with a red flag in his family may “come clean” with you after he’s just hooked up with you to show his sincerity and to give him a chance to spill the beans about his current girlfriend and how he’s being persecuted and abused so much that he can’t hold on to her even if he wants to. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the “shrew” in your family, and then you’ll feel compassion for him and decide to give your heart and soul to build a warm home for him when he breaks up with his current one. ……
Wake up! The woman who can shock the toxic man’s ability will not be small, he simply does not want or can not be divided. And you, you are just a wild food that he occasionally comes out to steal his mouth.
The good woman fights back: “Ahem, what are you talking to me about? I don’t have anything to do with you if you don’t like to share!”