While it’s nice to be in a relationship, if it’s not what you want, then it’s redundant, and for you, it’s a bad one to avoid. If you want to be in a solid relationship, you should take a clear stand in the face of unexpected entanglements and not get involved in a messy relationship…
If you have so many bad flowers that they take the place of the good ones, then what about the ones who really deserve it? The most important thing to do is to get to know the person you are with. The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
1. I wish I could say this to you, but I can’t lie anyway…
1. :2em;text-align:left;”>It seems a bit harsh to open with that, and it should actually be immediately clear what you’re really saying as soon as you say it. But there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s easier to start off with a clear position than to beat around the bush with ambiguity.
2. When I’m with you, I’m relaxed and comfortable, but we just don’t get along.
It’s really rare to meet a friend of the opposite sex that you can completely let go of your guard and get along with naturally, but if you’re too embarrassed to say no because of that, you’re undoubtedly making a wrong move! If you are a person who takes both love and friendship seriously, then you can’t be sloppy when it counts, and it’s important to set the relationship aside, which will also be great for the future direction of your friendships.
3. I don’t think I can give you what you want ……
If you’re sure you can’t have opposites attract to him and are feeling something other than friends, then it’s a good idea to be more direct and tell him the truth, at this point a well-meaning lie or silence is not the appropriate response, to know that really warriors dare to face up to a miserable life ……
4. I’m not entirely sure how I feel right now, and I don’t want to start a relationship hastily.
This is by far the most subtle response and the least damaging to a hopeful confessor. However, although polite and courteous, the phrase implies a certain risk that the other party may think that there is still hope for success, and if one is patient enough to wait and see and keep trying, there may be a series of persistent courtship moves to follow, and you still can’t really escape the tangle of complicated feelings.
But if you’re also on the fence about him and just can’t be clear about what you really think yet, it’s good to leave room in your answer to prepare for the future of your relationship.
5. I want a plain, ordinary relationship, and a flashy, high-profile plot is not for me.
Some people like to use confessions as a surprise to mark the beginning of a relationship, so they will suddenly come out of the blue when you are unprepared and unpredictable, and in the plot they designed you should first be caught off guard and then moved to tears. You should be caught off guard and then moved to tears in the plot they designed, and you end up happily together.
However, reality is often unconventional, and the reality is that you do feel overwhelmed by his confession, but there will be no next move at all. Remember, if he really isn’t your type, this is the time to make sure you first steady your mind and calmly say the words above.
6. I care about you, but I don’t love you.
This is a polite but direct and clear answer to a confession, which can take care of each other’s feelings and make the situation not too awkward and stagnant, but also clearly expresses your position. It is also very effective as a comfort to let him know how important his place in your heart is.
Everyone has a time when they get into a bad relationship, do you know how easily you get into a bad relationship? Let’s take a little test!
The Bad Peach Test: How Easy Are You to Attract Bad Peach Flowers
You want to make a birthday cake for your friend. When the cake is ready, there are three kinds of snacks you can add to the top of the cake: A strawberry, B almond slice, and C chocolate chip. What would you be most likely to add to the cake?
There are six ways to rank the three snacks in order of how much you like them, with the ones you would be most likely to add to the cake at the top and the ones you would be less likely to add to the cake at the bottom. Please choose the one that is closest to your idea.
1A-2B-3C: You have a very cheerful personality and are prone to attracting bad flowers. You tend to be the one who talks the most in a crowd, and once you open your mouth, it’s like a faucet being unscrewed, you simply can’t stop. So, whether it is the same sex or the opposite sex will be attracted to your eyes. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1A-2C-3B: You’re a standard woman who doesn’t know how to keep her distance from the opposite sex, which inevitably leads to bad luck. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on the subject. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1B-2A-3C: You’re gentle and delicate, and you like to ask for help when things go wrong, which can lead to bad luck if you’re not careful. You seem to be accustomed to ask others for help as soon as problems arise in your life or work, and you simply cannot face your own problems independently. The bad flowers that lurk around you are often just waiting for you to ask for help.
1B-2C-3A: You have a dull personality and are not very likely to attract bad flames. In the eyes of the opposite sex, you are somewhat uncomfortable, no matter what kind of hints are given to you, you will only choose what you like, and will never force yourself to fulfill others. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1C-2B-3A: You are very noble and have little chance of attracting bad flowers. You have a look of an iceberg beauty, although it is easy to attract peach blossoms, but the possibility of being stuck with bad peach blossoms is not great. As the saying goes, flies do not sting seamless eggs, if you do not love to dabble in flowers yourself, how can you attract bees?
1C-2A-3B: You are kind and simple, and very likely to attract bad flowers. Some people plot against you, and you are unlikely to find each other’s intentions. The bad peach blossom stick to you, said just want to make friends with you, you do not refuse, the other party, of course, stick more tightly. People say to be friends is really just to be friends? Don’t be so naive.