In our real life, there are too many such silly women who are enduring, crazy, suffering, seeing no future, even putting their lives on the line, and all of this they do just to maintain a marriage that looks complete to outsiders. Today, let’s try to get inside the minds of these poor women.
Women are always reluctant to break up probably because of the following psychological reasons:
One, in love with the habit, there is no courage to choose again
Women with this mentality, we can say she is persistent and faithful, but the premise is that she must The first thing you need to do is to meet a good man. But more often than not, we have to say she is stubborn and cowardly.
There is one such woman whose marriage is actually not generally miserable anymore, and she still stubbornly clings to that hell and refuses to let go. On the surface she looks brave, and she can risk her life for the sake of her marriage – “I’d rather die than divorce “.
But when you really think about it, she is the most timid and cowardly woman, the marriage has no future, her husband treats her like a human being, but she is still immersed in those once fleeting visions of beauty and still can’t get out of those humble habits of over living, what kind of terrible loyalty and cowardice is that?
She was so cowardly to the bone that her man could not see the least of her dignity as a woman.
Such a man is sad, but even sadder than the man is the woman, and it can even be said that the woman has made the man another kind of sad with her own sadness.
The woman’s sadness is dependence, cowardice and anesthesia, the man’s sadness is selfishness, arrogance and bestiality, and when the woman once dependent on a habit, all the man’s bestiality seems she can forgive, so I can’t help but ask: its really wrong for the woman to fall in love with the habit, or is it wrong for the man’s beast to have no humanity?
Two, the child is the woman’s eternal attachment
The woman’s reluctance to divorce because of the child is not the woman’s fault. The first thing that I would like to do is to find out who is at fault, and that fault can only be God. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Speaking from the heart, I don’t know whether to eulogize or denounce this motherhood of women in such an environment, because we are talking about marriage here, about women themselves, and not just about humanity and devotion. The woman should live for herself as a woman, and while children are important, they are not necessarily a complete contradiction to her own happiness.
There are many divorced women who are still happy with their children, and there is a question of personal awareness, spirituality, and survival skills, not both as many people think.
Thirdly, the world is black as crows, three turns around the tree and no branches to fall back on
In real life, a significant number of women who have experienced a failed relationship will subjectively blame all men under the sky for that failure, and they are blinded by a single leaf that does not see the mountain. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So, they suffered a betrayal and emotional failure of the man, there is no heart of progress, thinking that the men are the same, even if it is broken up, but ultimately to find a man again, to find which man is the “crow is black”, rather than that constantly tossed, it is better to endure a little bit of this to keep a man for life.
They are not only the most popular and most popular of all.
However, this kind of patience should have its own principles and bottom line, if you are experiencing serious domestic violence for a long time, if your man is not fulfilling his marital responsibilities and obligations, then you really should consider a new choice.
Even if the crows are generally black, they don’t cry the same. Maybe there is no really good man under the sky, but there must be a man who is more suitable for you.
Fourth, being a do-gooder is a soft spot for most women
The better a woman is, the more she is afraid of breaking up. This is actually related to a soft spot inside them. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The more difficult and inhumane treatment, the more she will hold up.
The first time I saw a woman, I was able to get a good look at her.
In fact, there are a lot of women who do this, it’s scary, there is no self, they are the biggest pursuit in life, almost crazy, some pathology.
Five, no opinion, can not resist the temptation of sweet words
The last of such women is the most, they can find a thousand reasons for divorce and vows that night, but the next morning when you wake up, all ideas have changed, the man just two sweet words, you can let her put all the past everything The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the hurt.
Also, this person persuaded peace, that person said how bad the divorce, so several times down, the greater the difficulty and suffering, they will unknowingly continue to choose to endure. The day goes on day after day, but the marriage is not divorced after all ……