When hidden marriages between men and women become a phenomenon, a type of community, one has to wonder: how far can a marriage that needs to be recognized and witnessed by society in all its glory, become a hidden marriage that is kept secret and unseen, forever?
I. Holidays
No matter how they pretend, as long as their wives are not around, pseudo-singles on holidays, when the real singles are entertaining but will play missing with you, and he is telling you to go home with your parents. If you still don’t see anyone after meal time, then you should be alert.
II. Secret phone calls at regular times
If, for example, you’re at karaoke Or drinking tea or even just working overtime, his phone suddenly rang, but he was borderline looking at the caller to get up and walk out, then you need to pay attention to the fixed phone will only be like a loved one at a fixed time, which is not the same as the unscheduled phone messages from friends who eat, drink and play. If you really care about him, then you should pay attention to these little details!
Three, vague answers in the face of direct questions
Knowing that Wei Xiao Bao Why do you tell so many lies without being detected? That is because, a large part of the successful lie is true, just change the key part. When you directly ask him if he has a girlfriend or wife, he answered “currently a person”. Yes, he will explain in his own mind, currently, that is, at this moment, he is indeed alone, girlfriend or wife are not around. If he’s the one answering questions in a roundabout way, honey, you should pay attention too.
Fourth, the truth
The truth of the outcome is that they either have The truth of the matter is that they either have been in a relationship for many years or have married wives, or even children. They may be living abroad or away on business, in any case, temporarily absent from his side. When you angrily question him about these single men outside, they just shrug and tell you: a person’s feelings and marriage, is private. The man to detect: he is “hidden marriage”? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1. Before getting married, he will always find various excuses to keep you from visiting his hometown?
2. He rarely takes you to class reunions and doesn’t seem to like you having too much contact with his old friends?
3. Every time you ask him about his past, he always avoids talking about it or downplays it by saying, “There’s nothing to talk about.”
4. When you are in a particularly good mood or when you are very close, he will test you intentionally or unintentionally: “I really love you, promise me that no matter what happens in the future, you must forgive me, OK?
5. He will occasionally hide in a corner to answer a mysterious phone call or occasionally have an unplanned financial expense, and when you ask him about it, he will always stammer and muddle through. If he has 3 or more performance, you may find a time to talk to him heart to heart. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.