These are some of the tips you can use to get your heart pumping.
Giving a look of love
Hey, the eyes are not called “windows to the soul” for nothing, your eyes are the best weapon to send a silent but strong message. When your eyes linger on him for a few more seconds, the message you send is: I see you, I like you, let me into your life.
But now here’s the thing: not all eye contact can have that effect. The signal you send has to be just right. Try this step, and that gentle, unsuspecting boy will never know what it is that makes you tick.
Now, give him a quick glance, being careful not to stare at him (that seems a bit nerve-wracking), and slowly let your “offhand” glance form a top-to-bottom angle, from his eyebrows down to his cheekbones and finally to his chin.
Look into his eyes every few seconds (or even give a playful smile). Then, continue to “scan” his face (this needs to be done quickly, in about seven to eight seconds). He’ll be aware that you’re watching him, but he won’t feel like he’s being watched.
Say just the right amount of whispers
Want to make the conversation more intimate? It’s actually quite simple to do: just speak a little more softly than usual. That’s when your boy has to come closer to hear what you’re really saying. (What a great opportunity for him to smell that sexy perfume on you.) Another cool trick is to ask questions with his name on them.
Don’t ask “Have you seen the new Harry Potter movie?” Try “Jay, have you seen the new Harry Potter movie?” Adding his name instantly makes your conversation much more intimate. When talking to him, leave small hints that you are paying attention to his personal life. For example, if you find out he has a golden retriever, you can say, “Hey! I think I saw you with a dog last Saturday. What breed is it?”
How it works:
Your sweetheart can’t see you, so there’s no need to worry about your face turning red like an apple. You also don’t have to rack your brain right then and there to come up with something witty and witty to say, because you have all the time in the world. Write a letter back. If he doesn’t cooperate, type a quick “bye” and walk away.
Use the “touch and run” technique
Nothing lets him know you care like a little skin-to-skin contact. But before you act, know that there is a lot of finesse to this kind of contact. If you push too hard, you might scare him off. What you want to do is a quick nonverbal hint that you want to get closer to him.
For example, if you brush past him while looking for a seat at a volleyball game, there’s no way for him to know if you bumped into him by accident or something else, but it will make him notice you and mull it over. Or, after the game, touch his elbow and say, “Nice run,” and walk away.
The next time you see him, touch his things, like pick up his phone and ask if it has any other features. Each touch should be quick and not take more than a minute. This way he won’t find it annoying, but will start to notice and consider you. Gradually, you have entered his personal space.
How it works:
You don’t have to fully reveal your affection, just make him curious, and after a few close encounters, even the most obtuse boy will notice you.
Build a mysterious web
When contacting by e-mail, what may start out as a serious affair can quickly develop into a flirtation. You can ask questions that concern “him”, like “How do you think you did on this test?” This way you can keep the conversation going. If your online lover takes the bait, great, give a teasing reply “I’m going to a party and don’t want to go alone, can you keep me company?”
Don’t make it as long as a Tostoyevsky novel, play it cool (no matter how much you want to see him through the screen), keep his curiosity alive, and make him want to know more from you.
How it works:
Once he answers those questions, he’ll start wondering why it’s precisely you who knows so much about him (something he hasn’t paid much attention to before). If your boy’s response is tepid, you’ll be asked to slowly build up interest in simple things and then move on.