In October, the TV series “Big Man’s Wedding” was the top of the ratings, and “Watching “Big Man’s Wedding” and tasting lonely life” became a must for single men every day.
Now that the number of single men and women has exceeded 100 million, online matchmaking has become a trend, and many matchmaking websites have emerged. Experts say it’s important to learn how to judge the “reliability” of a blind date in the illusory internet.
It’s easy to find a significant other, but it’s hard to find one
“Come on, I don’t like it when guys don’t have an opinion.” “Wearing a flip-flop on a blind date? Do you know how to respect people?” “I don’t mind if I spend money, but I do mind if guys initiate AA.”
Zhao Qing, female, 29, university teacher, single for 5 years, averaging 3 blind dates a week. “Must find an in-law before the end of the world in 2012.” This is her tiktok signature, now two months away from the “end of the world”, but she has experienced another failed blind date. “26 years old because I want to find a better, and the first love broke up, now also really regret.” Zhao Qing said she now only wants to find a physically and mentally healthy, income can be, not too ugly man is good. But as soon as you get to the dating scene, you will be picky, “the people who are left, is self-inflicted, I now also look forward to unanticipated love, but age does not wait for me, I better count on a reliable dating.”
“Mom is already living in the house, three sentences without ‘how do you get it?” The first son of the family, Li Li is 31 years old, looks good and earns a good income, so why is he still single?
“How does that song go? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. “I want to find a girl with big eyes, beautiful smile, good temper, chat, simple emotional experience, not a Virgo.” Whenever you ask Li Li what he likes, he blurts out his own criteria, but in Li Li’s words, “The criteria is easy to set, the feeling is not good to have, plus work is busy, which has time to find?”
Who will save “me” from loneliness?
What is the percentage of older singles?
The number is unverifiable at the moment, after the media reported that in 2011, the National Civil Affairs Bureau researched that there were 180 million single men and women in China.
Single men and women in a hurry are looking for their other half, either through referrals, or by sneaking into marriage agencies in a low profile, or even by using “tiktok” or “tiktok” or other ” The “tiktok” and “tiktok” are even used as “girl shaking tools”. Although different ways, but the goal is the same, “the times are fickle, we all want to hunt through a quick way to eternal true love. It’s absurd, but it’s true.” The company’s main goal is to provide a quick and easy way to get to the top of the market.
“China is in the midst of an urbanization process, with many young people coming from rural areas or small and medium-sized towns to the metropolis, and the traditional dating channels introduced by friends and relatives no longer exist.” The increase in leftover men and women has its historical causes, according to Gong Haiyan, a veteran dating expert and founder of CenturyLink. The pressure of survival in the metropolis, many people put more energy into the struggle to fight, which also postpones the age of marriage. The narrow circle of life and the mentality of preferring to be single rather than to get along also lead to some people being late in finding their other half, said Gong Haiyan.
Online matchmaking is becoming a “trend”
“The good thing is, the Internet solves the problem of information asymmetry.” Gong Haiyan said, compared with the traditional offline matchmaking, the Internet has incomparable advantages, and has given birth to the market of dating sites, “Shi XX edge, for example, the site currently has 68 million members, from this number can be seen, choose online dating this way not a few people.”
Gong Haiyan said that the development of dating sites in China has been very rapid, from the birth of dating sites in China in the mid-1990s to the present, which has experienced about 15 years of development. The biggest attraction of online dating is that you are faced with a huge number of “matchmaking alternatives”, “the downside may be that the internet is unreal and people need to spend some energy to judge the authenticity of each other’s situation.”
“In terms of security and authenticity, many dating sites are making efforts, and our new ‘Love Truly’ site is currently the first dating site in China to use three-dimensional cross-certification.” Gong Haiyan said that no matter what attempts are made, they are all aimed at reassuring singles to find true love.