If you don’t know how to strike up a conversation, love may be out of reach. Here are 11 tips to help you meet romance!
1. Surprise method
Applicable to both men and women. The first time I saw a girl, she was alone in a pedestrian street one afternoon. Suddenly a man came up to her and asked politely, “Miss, what time is it, please?” Xiao Lin apologized and said, “Sorry, I don’t wear a watch or a cell phone, I don’t know the time.” At that moment, the man held out his hand, revealed his wristwatch and said, “I know it’s 3:50 p.m. Beijing time, and there’s a movie opening at 4:00 p.m. at the cinema over there, can I invite you to see it?”
Friendship alert: This method is not for men or women, but only for those with a sense of humor.
2. Direct Attack Method
Applicable type: both men and women. Zhao Zhao and some friends came out of the cafe, and the man who had just been paying attention to her at the cafe followed along. Zhao Zhao secretly laughed, wondering what the point of such childish stalking was. The man followed at a faster pace, took a few steps to her, spread his hands to stop, looked straight at Zhao Zhao, and said very seriously: “Hello! My name is **, I’m a third-year ** major at the University of C. I’d love to meet you and be friends with you.” The friends let out a good-natured laughter, and Zhao Zhao also smiled and said to him, “It’s OK to be a normal friend, hello, my name is Zhao Zhao.”
Friendship reminder: sincerity is the biggest secret to success in hitting on overwhelmed pairs.
3. Idle time use method
Applicable type: both men and women. The first time I saw this, I was stranded at the airport because of a missed flight, and I was bored. He turned his head and saw that the person who tapped him was actually a beautiful woman, who asked, “Are you also on the ** flight? Is it true that you missed your flight?” The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list.
A reminder: the leisure time of waiting for the plane to date, the environment, the mood is good, but also with a touch of travel loneliness, so the chances of a successful conversation is higher, the same reason, the train, the ship are applicable to this method.
4、Vest leave word method
Applicable type: male, Xiao Si often sit all the way to the bus, often see the girl, one day, the girl finally found the opportunity to him to talk. She sat in the seat behind him, and Xiao Si vaguely felt that something would happen, and sure enough, a tingling touch suddenly came from his undershirt. He didn’t turn around, but he knew what she was doing. When he arrived at the station, Si got off the bus as usual. The white T-shirt undershirt he was wearing read: See you every day, can I be a friend? My phone number: 139……
Friendship reminder: not every man is that well-bred to let you write on his undershirt, and he’s likely to jump up and shout, “Oh my God! My CK!” As for women who love clothes like life, this is definitely not an option!
5. The method of leaving words in the palm of your hand
Applicable type: men, generous women. The specific situation can be referred to Sanso’s “The Rainy Season Never Comes Again”, she found the boy she had a crush on for a long time on the playground, without saying a word, took his hand and wrote his name and home phone number on the palm of his hand. A kind of silent romance is spreading in the hearts of two teenagers.
A friendly reminder: when you rush up to grab his or her hand, you may have to give a simple explanation, such as: I’m not a bad person! etc., otherwise it may be misunderstood as a mugging. After all, the realm of silence is better than sound, and not everyone can appreciate it.
6. It is difficult to find a confidant
Applicable type: both men and women, Mid-Autumn Festival, the school power outage. The two girls wandered around the campus with no place to go and no one to love. The two boys were frustrated when they suddenly saw two boys passing by with guitars on their backs, and after discussing with Mosquito, they boldly went up and asked, “Can I hear you play a tune?” Perhaps the hazy moonlight, the annoying blackout and the girls’ plea moved them, and at once they readily agreed to their date.
Friendship alert: Anyone likes to show merit, especially if they have a specialty, and for a reason that sounds beautiful.
7. The bummer mixer method
Applicable types: men, kind women. This is the devil’s pickup method taught by True. She came to the casual restaurant she frequented at lunchtime, took her rice spoon, walked right up to the man who looked so good, and said to the bewildered man, “Your food looks delicious, can I have some?” He blushed and stammered, “Please, go ahead.” He was reminded by the coos of his friends around him and hurriedly added, “How about I focus on one for you to eat?”
A friendly reminder: they say it’s the devil’s pickup method.
8、虚心求教法
Applicable type: both men and women. Hedda looked at the girl in the swimming pool who was wearing a red swimsuit and swimming well in the breaststroke. He swam up to the girl and asked, “Hello, you’re a good breaststroke swimmer, can you point me in the right direction?” The girl looked at him suspiciously and he immediately said, “I know butterfly, why don’t we swap and learn?” The girl laughed.
Friendship reminder: be really open-minded and hide that drunkenness. The possibility of rejection is not impossible, but at least it won’t embarrass you.
9. The method of leaning in praise
Type of application: suitable for both men and women, especially for women. Dong Su caught up with the girl who came out of the mall: “Please ask how to go to Renmin South Road?” After the girl pointed the way, he took a deep breath and said, “Oh my God, can you tell me what perfume you’re using?” She immediately looked at him warily and he explained, “I’ve been looking for this perfume for a long time, did you buy it from this mall? What brand? How much?” A series of questions just about the perfume made the girl let her guard down, and she kindly told him the answer, and offered to take him to the counter. The perfume was naturally bought, but he gave it to her.
A friendly reminder: be careful to ask only what you want to ask, and don’t make the other person feel like you’re hitting on something else. The first thing you need to do is to get your own personalized product. And the human heart is good. When he or she tells you the answer, he or she also has time to look you over and see if it’s worth leaving a phone number.
10. The theater method of finding a spouse
Type of application: female. In front of the theater, the ocean is holding two of the most popular theater tickets, about to come with a friend but temporarily cool. He wants to see and feel a person is not interesting, sell to the scalper is also not willing. At this moment, a pair of girls nearby were asking the scalper for tickets, and when they were ready to give up, Ocean went over to one of the girls and said, “Can I invite you and your friend to see the play?” He gave the tickets to the two girls with only one request, hoping that the girl he was talking to would buy him tea later. The selfless gesture immediately moved the girls to take the initiative to set up a time and place to meet.
The ocean left happy, a play to watch or not to watch, in exchange for an unknown love affair, which he thought was a good deal.
A reminder: This kind of ego into the big picture is very convincing, but the girls are easy to pile up, do not propose to invite only one person to see the bad proposal, otherwise the probability of success immediately dropped to 0.
11, cell phone love method
Applicable types : Both men and women. Dan Dan met him at the light rail station and fell in love at first sight. After getting on the train, she kept thinking about how to strike up a conversation with him so as not to be misunderstood as a thirteen point. Seeing that the train would arrive at the station, she was in a hurry and walked up to him and said, “Can I borrow your phone for a while?”
Perhaps because she seemed in a real hurry (not to make a call, of course), he immediately handed her the phone. After Dan Dan pressed a few numbers on it, her phone rang. Looking at a confused him, she smiled and said, “My number is already on your phone, can we contact each other often from now on?”
A reminder that although cell phone robberies are common, there are many good people, and as long as you don’t look “criminal,” you can usually borrow the other person’s phone. This is a subtle and effective approach, worth a try.