Marriage is not as sweet as love, marriage is a joint effort to maintain the husband and wife, as the husband, as the head of the family is burdened with the heaviest responsibility, as the backbone of the family should try to reduce conflict with his wife, reduce unnecessary conflicts, careful care of his wife The company’s main goal is to make sure that the family is satisfied with the husband.
One, don’t take your wife seriously
As a wise husband, don’t take your wife seriously in everything
. Don’t take your wife seriously in everything. We listen to our wife’s nagging; we have to correct her complaints in time. When she is angry, do not be hard, the man can kiss his wife at the right time, to extinguish the anger in her heart. The actual fact is that you can get a lot more than just a few of these.
Two, timely communication with his wife
Data shows that happy couples, there is always bickering in their lives, and they are always nonchalant when they fight. If the couple respects each other in life, it only means that you are not close enough. Understand that your home should be the freest and most reckless place to belong. When it’s time to fight, don’t hold it in, only all vent out, then you will be quiet to solve the problem. In fact, arguing is the best way to communicate.
Three, do not easily say divorce
Man Don’t say divorce easily, that would be like asking for her life. Although women will say divorce when they gamble, but they do not mean it, they are just saying the words of anger. When a woman says divorce, the man must not take it seriously, you know, many marriages are because of a gambling words, and go their own way. So when men gamble, do not mention divorce, that will make women feel that men are petty. It is also a great loss of face for the man.
Fourth, a good lie is more convincing
Being a good husband. Not everything to say, to have something to hide. There are some things that are not good for the stability of the family, then you can not say. We call these commonly known as well-intentioned lies, which can reduce the occurrence of conflicts and avoid a series of unpleasant things. If you think: “Why bother to lie with your own wife.” Then you are wrong, according to the analysis of female psychology. A well-intentioned lie is more convincing to a woman.
Constructing a harmonious marriage is not just about the wife. As the saying goes, a slap on the wrist doesn’t make a sound, and conflicts and quarrels in a marriage are caused by two people, so as a husband you should do what you can to make your wife happy rather than sad.