Wouldn’t looking inside yourself help you make the next choice?
Hint #1: You often find excuses not to see him
You’re at home with nothing to do, and then you get a text from him: “Come out and meet up :)” or something like that. Even though you’re bored and not in your pajamas or have a TV show you want to watch, you respond with, “Sorry, something came up and I couldn’t make it.
Maybe that counts as a well-intentioned lie, but it gives you the first hint – he might not be the one you want.
If you don’t want to see him when you have time, it’s likely you won’t make time for him in the future.
Hint #2: You don’t want to introduce him to people who are important to you
Friends and family are important. If you don’t want to introduce your boyfriend to them, or if you don’t want him around when you’re with family and friends, or if you don’t care at all about what your family and friends think of him.
This is the time to think about whether you should end the relationship.
Hint #3: You won’t miss him
You and he have been busy with your respective jobs for a week now. The two of you haven’t even had time to take a shower, let alone meet up for a cup of coffee or something. Even though he keeps calling or texting you to tell you how much he misses you, you really don’t miss him at all.
If this is the case, it’s time to let go. If you don’t miss him when he’s acting out on you, then you won’t miss him even if he fades out of your life forever.
Hint 4: You don’t care if he goes out with other women
This hint may not seem like a hint to many people because it’s as obvious as a flashing neon sign. But the reality is that many people don’t realize it.
If you don’t mind him going out with other women, it means you don’t care if he really likes you either, because you yourself aren’t that interested in him. When you like someone, you want him to have only you in his eyes and want to get all his attention.
Hint #5: You want to meet more men
Another neon sign-like “hint”. If you find yourself still lingering on other men, then the man you’re with now may not be the one for you.
If you like a guy, your eyes will only linger on him alone. But if you don’t like him, your eyes will automatically search for the next better target.
Hint #6: You’re constantly picking fights
Whatever he does pisses you off. He messes up your room, one fight; he grabs lunch together and pays for you, another fight.
If anything he does makes you angry, then he’s not the guy you like either, but the guy who makes you awful.
Hint #7: You’re always not in the mood to do this or that ……
Whether it’s sex or kissing, it’s a hint that you don’t always want to carry on when your boyfriend wants to go further.
Maybe the two of you are not the right type, or maybe it means you don’t like him as much as you think you do. Either way, it could be messing up your love life.
Hint #8: “I don’t want to ruin our friendship.”
Love mostly evolves slowly from friendship. Nowadays, it has become fashionable for women to pursue men, after all, it is more likely to succeed if women take the initiative. The day you tell him you want to make your relationship super friendly, he may have a reserved look and say “I don’t want to ruin our friendship”, then you shouldn’t hold out any hope.
Any guy would not care about breaking up a “friendship” to get close to you, and it’s not like he’s too scared to chase you because of shyness and low self-esteem. The only thing he’s “scared” of is that he’s so “indifferent” to you that he won’t know how to contact you on your cell phone, email, IM, unless he doesn’t want to find you, unless he doesn’t love you!
Hint #9: “I’m busy”
“I’m busy so I forgot” is something you often hear men say in relationships. But is he really busy?
“Busy” is the most common excuse for a man, whether he’s dating someone else or socializing, and the word “busy” is a good way to get past his girlfriend. Sometimes he says he’s busy because he’s doing something he doesn’t want you to know about, and sometimes he’s busy because he didn’t take your agreement seriously and forgot about it. If he really loves you will not forget, because forgetting means he does not care about your disappointment. The “busy” is a weapon of mass destruction on the relationship, is synonymous with “jerk”, jerk is to use busy perfunctory you the person. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Hint #10: “I’m tired”
When you asked for sex and he said “I’m tired,” you were devastated, thinking he must be exhausted to ignore you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Is he no longer energetic?
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