As the old saying goes, “If you want to get rid of the outside world, you have to get rid of the inside world”, so be careful when these 10 situations arise in your marriage.
1. The marriage of a strong woman
The majority of strong women’s marital infidelity is not the result of a strong woman having a lover, but of her “no” husband having a third party behind her back, which makes many strong women feel uneven: I have worked hard to earn money to support the family. To support the family, wholeheartedly for this family, you are good, a little ghost with no, to use my money to find a lover, and so on. But they just do not know that it is this “strong” stifle the “useless” husband as a man’s self-esteem and vanity, so that they are too depressed too bitter, they cheat on many cases is to find and their equivalent woman around to confide in, as long as the other party More to give them some reassurance and encouragement, it is easy to “fall in love”. The worst thing is that even if their cheating is found by a strong woman, they are also a “dead pig is not afraid of boiling water”, will not deny, but will be free to propose a “divorce”. The reason also such as: “I do not deserve you” “and you together with the pressure is too much” “I am useless” and so on. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
2. Marriage of a full-time wife
I often compare marriage to “mountain climbing”, as if we got a ticket to “mountain climbing” from the day we got married and went to the foot of a big mountain together.
I often compare marriage to “mountain climbing” as if we got a “mountain climbing” ticket from the day we got married, and together we got to the foot of a big mountain. And the real life always, there are always some wives think married will have to rely on, give up the previous work and study, at ease at home as a “full-time wife”, a dependency mentality, no longer seeking advancement, but also stopped the idea of climbing with their husbands, but after the husband married, will face the pressure of supporting the family, this pressure requires them to desperately This pressure requires them to desperately to earn money, to try to climb the “marriage” mountain. This also causes when the husband is afraid to a certain height, the wife still stays at the foot of the mountain, when the husband is tired of climbing want to find his wife to talk, want to get his wife spiritual comfort, his wife still does not notice, and this time the husband’s side will certainly have other women, each other will be easy to find common topics cheating, and over time will also become love; at the same time, this time the husband then look at the foot of the mountain, will also The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. A marriage without children
Children are the biggest “finished product” of a marriage and the “bond” that keeps a couple together. The company’s main goal is to provide a more efficient and effective way to meet the needs of its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4. The marriage of the wrong family
More often than not, when people choose a spouse, the right family will say, but now many people, especially young people after the 80s and 90s, they advocate the principle of “love first”, even if the other party They will also break through the world and various barriers to come together, even if there are big differences with themselves, such as age, culture, family background and so on. But when they are really hot-headed, they will find a lot of problems, such as no common language, husband and wife life is not satisfied, these problems will make them feel special headache, once they are unable to find a solution to the problem, one of them will definitely be tempted to slowly give up the idea of “staying together for life”, as long as The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem, and to make sure that the company is able to provide a solution to the problem.
5, patriarchal marriage
and the above marriage without children is different, this marriage is more related to the region, family, to Henan, Chaoshan, from rural families and only child, the majority of this phenomenon of marital infidelity, the vast majority is from the husband’s family pressure or their own “machismo” “patriarchal” thinking is serious. Usually these men first cheat on their wives with illegitimate children before they find out, or take the initiative to persuade their wives to divorce or even accept the truth, etc.. He and his family know that his behavior is enough to constitute a de facto marriage and to charge him with “bigamy,” but in many cases, the wife is ashamed of herself for not having a son for her family and gives in.
6. Marriage in which the mother’s family is strong or overly dependent on the mother’s family
The husband and wife have lived in the mother’s house since they got married for a long time, and the husband wanted to move out several times, but the wife did not agree, and the mother’s family always stayed. The reason is “your family always does not treat me as a person” “and your parents together which is living” and so on, at first the wife really thought that she should not live in the mother’s house. So the thought of moving out with her husband, but her husband never came home at this time, and then we intervened to investigate to find that people and third parties have long been in the city to build another “love nest”, just waiting for your side of the divorce certificate a hand, they are ready to host a banquet to get married. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
7. Marriage with a particularly bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a must for every wife and is one of the most important relationships that can affect the quality of a marriage.
But this is not to say that the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will definitely divorce will cheat, only when the long-term relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled to a certain extent, so that these mother-in-law “distractions” induced husband cheating. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
8, the marriage of soft-headed men
Unlike the marriage of strong women, soft-headed men are by nature lazy and idle, they have nothing to do and want to rely on their wives to earn money to support the family, the cheating of this marriage is not necessarily the wife, it is precisely these soft-headed men who have taken their wives’ money to indulge in the Internet, nightclubs, bars, and internet friends all day long. Nightclubs, bars, and Internet friends, sitter girls fooling around. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
9, separated marriages
There is no doubt that the two couples are separated for a long time, not to mention that sex is not satisfied, feelings will also let the distance and time consumed, the convenience of this cheating is not only space, but also emotional, material, “distance produces beauty “is also just a couple of self-deception. The appearance of the third person is also absolutely extremely damaging, and so you realize that when the two of them have reached the step of the feelings like glue, you want to separate them also has a very high degree of difficulty, and “separation” “broken feelings” will become after he cheated The reason for the divorce is that you have to ask for it.
10, separate, AA marriages
Some couples agree to “non-interference” regulations before marriage, such as non-interference in each other’s private life after marriage, economic AA, career each doing their own thing, etc. They simply do not know that marriage is still a community of couples. A community, the vast majority of each other’s income after marriage is the common property of the couple, after the marriage is not transparent to each other, can not ignore the existence of each other. But these agreements of their marriage after marriage to do so will only hurt the feelings of the couple, so that the two people in the marriage will always be parallel lines and can not intermingle together. It is also this independent space for each other to provide the convenience of a third party. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.