Saying that feelings are like a glass, as long as you don’t drop it too hard it won’t break at once, but most of the glass can’t escape the end of the shattering. The first crack of the glass is always the origin, just like our feelings, every kind of behavior that does not take into account the feelings of others is a not deep or shallow crack, after accumulating to a certain amount of feelings like a glass completely shattered. So in the eyes of straight men exactly what behavior of their girlfriends can constitute a crack in the glass? The following behaviors are difficult for most men to accept. For example:
Speaking more prickly
This prickly is said to hit the nail on the head. Perhaps many women like toxic men, but the vast majority of men do not like toxic women. Even if you swear without a dirty word, men can not stand it. To cite the most typical example: we have seen the “odd man out”, right? Inside the Ma Weiwei and Fan Tiantian will have which man married? Don’t tell me that Fan Ye likes Ma Weiwei, people Fan Ye is a boyfriend, okay? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Strong jealousy/hate mind
Men always like soft and kind-hearted women. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
Easy to get excited
I used to hear that some girls would get upset because of The breakup and the self-seeking, this easily excited behavior over-excited state will give the male partner a lot of pressure. By analogy, in addition to self-seeking, those with violent tendencies are easy to be pulled by men.
Doing it
Being unreasonable is also referred to simply as “作”. This word is actually a derogatory term in the minds of men, men looking for a girlfriend is not idle boredom looking for a crime. The relationship itself is sweet and beautiful, we all want to have a happy relationship, women who do not want to be domineering control, men also do not want to be inexplicable fuss. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Grabbing men too hard
This refers to peeking at men’s phones and checking their room records. and checking a man’s rooming house records. The vast majority of men still take their privacy very seriously, and male minds rarely make all their secrets public unconditionally. Some people have asked 30 men today about being peeked at on their cell phones and being checked for open records, and 29 of them were opposed and resistant to the idea, leaving the one that was his dad, because he had been watched by his mom for decades and it didn’t matter anymore.
Often emits negative energy
“A hundred thousand cold jokes” everyone We’ve all seen it, right? The main character in the play can rely on the spit to destroy the earth, although this is an exaggerated expression, but the lack of real life from. Trolling, especially negative energy trolling often affects the pleasant mood of those around you, an optimistic character of the man is not to comfort you, to guide you, to help you lift the impact of negative energy. However, the purpose of these actions is to make no longer disturbed by negative energy, if you are a negative energy perpetual motion machine, then in the optimistic man will also give up on your treatment.
Threatening men with breakups
Honestly, men don’t break up easily. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. However, many women like to break up hanging on the mouth, nothing to mention the breakup, perhaps behind the meaning is to let the boyfriend to coax you, but the man does not think so. From the point of view of male thinking, breakup is a very serious word, only after careful consideration will be said out. If the word comes up a lot, then men basically think you’re not seriously committed to the relationship.
Not responding to his advances
Sexual indifference here doesn’t It does not mean that there is no sexual demand, but for those female students who have almost zero sexual response. We all know that sex is sexual, and sex and love are inseparable. If the sexual fit is not high, it can seriously affect the relationship between two people, especially men, who take this thing of sex particularly seriously, so if the sex drive is too low or the sexual response is too cold then it will also be particularly damaging to the man’s motivation for you.
Take men as ingrates
There are many rich men who are and are happy to give The first thing that I would like to do is to make sure that I have a good idea of what I’m talking about. First of all, the question should be clear, we are talking about spending money, the definition of spending money is the moonlight or overdraft credit card consumption. This so-called overspending concept is the vast majority of straight men do not want to see, men tend to have a strong financial concept, for their monthly spending is planned, once a woman exceeds the planning bottom line of men, men are bound to think about whether this girl is suitable for them.
There is also a special case to point out: during the relationship, some girls will ask the guy to bear all the expenses of the date, and this behavior will also cause men to resent, men take the initiative to treat is one thing, being asked to pay for it is another thing. Although it is said that talking about money hurts feelings, but the financial independence in a relationship is a conscious awareness, otherwise from the male point of view will think that women treat men as ingrates, die to spend his money, spend and change another.
Alcoholism
Many men may not care if you smoke or not, because men themselves smoke. Because men themselves smoke; but the vast majority of men will care if you drink heavily, because a woman who is often drunk is often unsafe. Just like men in bars always pick those women who drink without ambiguity to play together, but they play with you for the purpose of just having fun or a one-night stand, definitely not looking for you as a girlfriend. So men will automatically classify women who like to drink as fuck buddies.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, some of which are cute in a man’s eyes, but there are degrees to everything, and going overboard can hurt the relationship.