Marriage is the transition from romantic personal feelings to rational family union, the interweaving of sensuality and rationality, which can be described as half seawater and half fire, extremely testing the handling ability of both parties entering the marriage. But now society, always see around a lot of people divorce more and more, especially around 30 years old couples marriage conflicts are particularly serious, and even lead to divorce. In a sense, the more progressive, open and democratic a society is, the more tolerance is given to divorce. However, divorce is, after all, the result of a broken marriage and can bring about many social problems. So, why is the divorce rate in modern society getting higher?
Marriage is too hasty
With love alone, you can get married. Even if the love is short-lived only a few days, to be precise this love should be a quotation mark love. It is for this reason that rational modern people are increasingly cautious about entering into marriage. And those who have entered the state of marriage, either to follow the social inertia and married, or to have a fully rational consideration before entering the castle. In today’s society, if marriage is seen as an entrance, those who enter hastily without sufficient calmness are likely to want to get out, and divorce is that exit. The entrance is not well guarded, but the courts at the exit are trying to retain it in any way they can, which seems a bit of a crying shame.
Changing sexual attitudes
As the status of women in all areas has With the improvement of women’s status in all aspects, coupled with the influence of western sexuality, women’s demand for sex is no longer the traditional transmission of the family. The enjoyment of sexual life has also become a right of women. They are no longer shy to ask if the quality of men’s sexuality is not up to their requirements, but take the initiative to withdraw. As a result, there is a growing trend for women to initiate divorce because of sexual disharmony.
Extra-marital affairs are increasing
The “mistress” and “lover” are increasingly recognized by society. Couples married for a long time, living together for a long time, once the passion is gone, from the left hand and right hand relationship. Many couples have almost no married life after many years of marriage, so that the couple actually became relatives. However, as an adult male, sex is still needed, but the lover in front of him is too familiar to raise sexual interest, and the only way to find excitement is through extramarital affairs, directly contributing to divorce.
Social pressure
With the socio-economic changes that are taking place, the
With social and economic changes, work is becoming more and more unstable, today’s work may be in the south, tomorrow it is in the north, the geographical instability of work and work is not fixed, the possibility of couples being together is getting smaller and smaller, some couples only meet a few times a year or once or even once every few years, the separation of couples has become the norm between Chinese couples at present, the separation of couples naturally makes couples indifferent feelings.
Economic pressure
A portion of the population that is still making mortgage payments after getting married, and a large group of people who are married, are still making mortgage payments. population, and a large group of people who are married but not buying a home. These people face a huge challenge, usually for their own living conditions to save to the extreme, couples together to do everything must be carefully calculated, even to the point that even the time of the birth of their children have to go through their own precise plans. In addition to the enormous pressure of work, in order to save money for the house, there is no opportunity for travel and excursions, lack of ways to relieve emotions, often quarrels, until finally came to the point of divorce.