Women, in the end, how many times in love to get married is perfect? The face of such a problem, I believe many people have their own views, there is once, there are at least two, there are also more times the better. Here follow me to see the opinions of netizens and professional analysis!
Moderate
Netizen Opinions —
Jiang Wei: I think the reason why there were many divorces later on in my parents’ generation is that they ate the loss of getting it done once. At least you should have more contact with the opposite sex to know which one you are, right? The first thing you need to do is to find out that you’ve been in a relationship once in your life, which is depressing.
FLY: It’s not good to blindly pursue quantity, it’s better to learn something each time and make sure you don’t go down the wrong path and make the same mistakes next time. So, it’s better to lock in a marriage goal after three or four relationships.
Lulu: It’s good to have a few relationship experiences, you know how to cherish them when you have a comparison. The problem is that you must not put the “ex” people often hanging around the mouth. The most fearful thing for boys is to be compared! Even positive comparisons will inevitably make people think about it and make it worse!
Reviews:
1. Love should end once and for all if it ends, never bring the shadow to the next man, it will be unfair to him, and don’t think the whole world is a passerby just because you have been hurt by a passerby …… Love should make people happy and grow, not suffer.
2. For Xiao Xi, the experience of love is part of the experience of life, and it is an important part. If experience is the wealth of life, then relationship experience is very good for human growth. We all really mature when we encounter a relationship regardless of the outcome.
3. Finally, I would like to remind some girls who always lose all their relationships that if you fall in love with one type of man every time and repeat one type of tragedy, it is time to reflect on it, otherwise you will still have zero experience and never reach happiness after 100 relationships. And a broken heart doesn’t heal with more experience ……
Zero-experienced
Netizen view –
LISA: Maybe it’s the first time The first time I fell in love, I was so devoted to him that I couldn’t wait to give him everything, and sometimes I was told that I loved him so much that I had no ego. I’ve been told by experienced people that I need to be “tactful”, but I always feel that being tactful is not true.
Ding: My boyfriend is my first love, but he’s had several girlfriends before, and although his sweet words are touching, I often wonder if he’s said them to others before. He has also hugged others like this? It makes me feel so unfair just thinking about it!
Baby: My boyfriend and I both had our first time with each other, and that’s fine. It’s like driving a car that someone else has driven, there is always a time to break in, adjust, and some things remain unchangeable. But a new car it will grow into the best condition with the owner’s habits. It’s like this person I created with my own hands, how could it not fit?
Reviews:
1. In a relationship, internal comparison is actually the most taboo, but this kind of comparison is very common. For example, like Mo. In fact, a good relationship should be when two people meet and move forward together.
2. Men rarely distinguish a woman’s true feelings from the amount of relationship experience, and if he’s with you now, it’s not because you look like his ex or you have his ex’s good qualities, otherwise why would he give up his ex to find you. So: just be yourself.
3. As for the dark little psychology of being unbalanced because he has more experience than you, hurry up and destroy it, you’re not blowing your own self-confidence. If there are regrets, you’ll regret at best why you didn’t get to know him before all his predecessors. And in fact, as the woman beside him, the happiest is always the last, not the first …… women’s relationship situations come and go in just a few ways. So is it entirely up to fate to decide if we can find a good man, or is there something wrong with our own aspirations?
This depends on the person, so let’s try to discuss it as well.
Meeting people
Netizen view —
Lin: Too many relationships and it becomes a game. It’s not like we’re making up a relationship book, so what’s the point of making ourselves look like machines? I’m sure these “love masters” won’t know if they’re still sincere in the end.
Xiao Ke: It’s a mess. I keep hearing some middle-aged, seasoned people lament that falling in love is always an endless repetition without anything new. I think, love too many times, inevitably will make people numb. The surface is more accurate and demanding on the object of love, but found that no one in the world can meet his requirements ……
White wind: also can not be a rod over a boat of people, some people fall in love After a number of times, so that their own “power” to strengthen, more understanding of the relationship between men and women is what is going on, how to get along with people. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
Reviews:
1. Simplicity after complexity is a realm.
2. The more experience many people have the easier it is to put up a dead pig not afraid of boiling water. Age makes it possible, but to let a normal man marry you home can be difficult, do not underestimate the intelligence of others. The self destructive and broken gray mentality will make any mature man who is playing the right spectrum to go around. The first thing you need to do is to give your healing to save the broken-winged angel and then marry it home, that is a romance novel, don’t fantasize and apply it to yourself, that is not sentimental but silly.
How many times is it appropriate to lock in a relationship?
Shopping around is a common shopping technique used by many savvy buyers, and many parents fear that their children will miss out on the possibility of a better deal if they establish a relationship with the opposite sex too early, sometimes even using this technique to convince their children in hot relationships. Of course there is no shortage of people with unique requirements for marriage who voluntarily use this as a no-brainer for choosing a spouse.
So just how many times is it appropriate to lock in a relationship? The answer is: the fewer times, the better.
According to psychologists, research has found that as older individuals complicate their experiences, people tend to whitewash past relationship memories: the good stuff is increasingly preserved, creating a strong contrasting effect on current emotional experiences .