This is a very sensitive issue, and I’ve always wondered what men really think inside, why do men have a virginity complex? The virginity complex, this for the majority of male compatriots in China, all too familiar word. Even though society has become more open, men still care whether their women are virgins or not. So, why do men have virginity complexes?
Possession mentality
Men deep down always desire to be the original man of his woman, which is what we call the virginity complex. In the traditional marriage ceremony, the bride is clad in a flawless white wedding dress, which symbolizes her dedication of her pure and flawless mind and body to her lover. This respect for virginity is deeply rooted in men’s minds and has been passed down to this day.
Conquest mentality
For men with a virginity complex This is a matter of dignity, and in addition to dignity it is also a manifestation of the male desire to conquer. In the heart of the man seeking virginity, in addition to the longing for something untouched, lies the desire to have his favorite woman at his mercy.
Dominance
Men think they can transform women at will and see them as playthings. The male mentality that sees women as playthings and that men see themselves as sexually dominant. The idea that a man who is in a relationship with a virgin woman and who wants her partner to develop and shape her image according to his own expectations, and who thinks he can transform women at will, undoubtedly carries a perverse mentality that sees women as playthings.
Lack of self-confidence
A man’s inability to tolerate being compared sexually by his girlfriend to her previous boyfriends is related to a man’s lack of confidence in sex. So as far as men are concerned, the psychology behind the pursuit of a pure virgin woman actually hides a sense of male sexual insecurity and naivety. The fear that if the other person is not a virgin, that is, has had sex with other men, her sexual experience with her ex-boyfriend is likely to form an inertia that is deeply engraved in her body.