Romance is not a meal, handsome is not a drink. From love to marriage, women want to find a person worthy of a lifelong commitment in order to find a lifetime of happiness. In modern society, many women’s ideal marriage object is: a car and a house, no father and no mother. Although the statement exaggerated, but to a large extent reflects the view of many women’s choice of spouse, although childish, but very common. There is nothing wrong with looking for a better objective conditions, but there are many things that can not be ignored are overlooked. So, how can a woman tell if a man is suitable for marriage?
See if he has a good family
See if he has a good family
It’s not about how much money his family has, it’s about whether his family has family harmony and cares about courtesy. A family in which a man beats a woman, people still do not care, pretend not to see the family, and later will not care about your life. The man who beat people can not want to be beaten once must be broken up. The philandering, the man who stepped on several boats can not want to find a must break up. The old saying goes, “When you break off, you suffer from the chaos.
To see if his mother gets along well
In a traditional family , a mother-in-law’s mood determines whether a family is happy or not. A good mother-in-law can be the icing on the cake, and a mother-in-law whose values don’t match can add a lot of conflict to a loving couple. After all, when you get married, you’re not just married to him, you’re married to the family.
Whether they support each other
Two people together, hurting and tormenting each other, who refuse to bow down, and end up getting scaly all over. Two people together should support each other and take care of each other, and be considerate and thoughtful of each other. Marriage is a lifelong thing, and some people, who don’t know how to cherish and don’t have the same aura, might have a better life if they leave.
A man who demands something of himself
Any man who gets by with his job himself but demands a lot from his girlfriend is best to stay away. This kind of man, the highest chance of becoming a toxic man after marriage, may be obedient to you before marriage, after marriage to your fingertips. The least a woman can ask for is to be respected by her husband, and a man who thinks he has the right to call on his wife is not a good marriage partner.
Goodness by nature
Because people who are good by nature are more morally bound and can’t do anything bad, life is better if they are plain. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Similar values
Similar personalities, similar outlooks on life and money are the best guarantee for married life. The personality is different, two people usually say no, even if the world is recognized as a golden girl, born with a pair, but also can not be married, after all, most of your life is to spend with him, cold and warm.