The problem of exes is a major “roadblock” in the development of relationships between couples, and failure to solve this problem can seriously affect the subsequent relationships. We will inevitably encounter the need to deal with the relationship with the former problem, only to say goodbye to the past, in order to look forward to the future. The only way to look forward to the future is to say goodbye to the past. So what attitude should be maintained towards your ex?
Goodbyes are friends
If you ever loved someone deeply This person, who was once an inseparable part of your life, then how do you go about switching roles to see him as a friend as if nothing had happened? The thing between lovers many times can not say who is right and who is wrong, but since the breakup, the treatment of former to have the minimum generosity, no longer pursue the right and wrong once. If you can grasp the good, not contrary to not affect the current feelings, and the former can maintain a kind of friend relationship. This has a prerequisite, is to assure each other have let go, no longer have expectations, both can calmly accept the breakup, and each other’s blessing, both hope each other each find their own happiness.
Strangers
Strangers
If you say that you will keep in touch after the breakup, it only means that one party has not really let go of the other, so you choose to be a stranger for the good of both parties. Not deliberately keep the relationship, and do not have to deliberately hate, and will not deliberately seek to see. After the breakup, in the life of each other can be light, let nature take its course. There is no crossover on the forgetfulness of an attitude, but also a correct attitude towards the former. If you are really love a word, if he really sorry you, really can make friends? The reality is harsh and not as colorful as we think.
Be at peace with it
Treat your ex with no lingering feelings. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The past will only make you lose the courage to move on. The other side is not pursued, is to let go of each other, and how is not a relief for themselves? Suppose both parties break up and make a new love, you are still friends with your old love, how does the new lover feel psychologically. Who does not think that you and the old love is broken? The new love is bound to be discontented and more afraid of a diagonal relationship in the pulling and tugging.
Accepting reality
People are nostalgic, and there are always people who know that loss is the best because of loss, so they start to miss the old days and want to catch up with the old days. The first thing you need to do is to find a way to get back to the good old days. The relationship will have a free space to grow and be healthy if you accept the reality and allow yourself to be wrong and allow the other person to be wrong.