Couples get along, although no one wants to quarrel, but a marriage without quarrels and arguments does not exist, as does a perfect person. It is very normal for couples to get into friction over various things. Faced with quarrels and arguments, it is not scientific to avoid them, and couples should learn to quarrel scientifically so that they can quarrel but not affect their feelings.
Knowing how to reflect after a fight the more you fight the closer you get
If after a fight, you think that he is simply the biggest enemy in your life, you may not be suitable, if after the fight you find that the other party cared about this matter, the other party will also feel that it is better to say some things, you will understand, this kind of fight can make people more and more intimate, and the relationship is more stable, you are suitable for marriage.
Listen to others
Sometimes a fight is inevitable The first thing we should do is to minimize the impact of the quarrel. After the quarrel, if both sides still feel that they have a reasonable one, it will be a cold war. The first thing you need to do is to ask for some advice from someone who has been there before, and let the next person analyze which one of you is right and which one is wrong.
Communicating with kids
It’s better if you have kids The couple’s cold war period do not want to talk first, are in the way, then you can let the children to convey each other’s concerns, such as the mother let the children tell the father, where to wash the shirt where; father let the children tell the mother, the new clothes bought in XX kitchen. This way the cold war between the couple will end quickly.
Use physical communication
Reliance on communication is not only verbal, but the most powerful communication is physical. The most powerful communication is physical communication. A woman’s noisy night can be seen as a flirtation, an expression of the need for strong communication. Communication does not necessarily rely on words alone, but in addition to verbal communication can also be physical, fully expressing, caressing, accepting, and accommodating with body language.
Don’t talk hurtful
To avoid emotional aggravation during a cold war. It is necessary to talk less, preferably not to speak, so as not to hurt people with their words. This is a very sensitive period for both people, and it’s easy to get into a mess if you speak badly to each other.
Do not criticize each other’s sexuality
Criticize a person’s sexuality
If you’re not sure what you’re talking about, you’re not sure what you’re talking about.