Let’s start with endurance.
Before we talk sense, let’s get on the plate joke.
When I was in college, my school was in a bad financial situation, and I had a hot water heater for every two floors, which broke down twice a day. The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of the new bathroom, so we had to use a bucket to get the water from the hot water machine and take a shower with cold water. You heard that right, no showers, a very primitive way to take a shower.
Because we are close to graduation, some people are busy with graduate school, others are busy with public exams and editorial exams, and time is precious, which creates a very awkward scene: fighting water is like fighting a war. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem. The hot water machine is just about to fail, the steam is so big that it looks like which way the gods have come, the long line exits the water room and turns in the hallway, everyone’s face is red and flushed, who knows if it’s heat or anger.
There were times when I was one place behind the girl, and seeing that her water reserves could cross the desert, I couldn’t help but remind her that there were a lot of people waiting behind her. She was a little embarrassed, but insisted on filling the bucket in her hand and reluctantly gave up the bottle she was supposed to refill.
It’s a joke now, when I was stressed and having trouble drinking and bathing, I was really angry.
My attitude about it was clearly not to put up with it, and it worked fast, and I got the chance to hit the water.
Although silent commitment, persistence is also understood as “endurance”, such as you endure the long cold winter dazzling shopping promotions, wrapped tightly in a long-wearing big cotton jacket back Xiao eight Xiao four, you know what you want, you can temporarily drive away the temptation in front of you, so that you can wait for the summer comfortable and happy. Life may not be everywhere as it should be, to endure is their own assignment to their own break-in tasks, rather than others get away to turn the burden to you.
When your interests are violated, you should have challenged, questioned, refuted, and in worse cases, turned to the law and believed in justice. I don’t think it’s healthy to have a social environment that is all about endurance. If someone endures in silence, someone is bound to bully wantonly, and it’s hard not to be an accomplice to the tiger when you preach endurance.
Believe me, there will always be people who will enjoy our misfortunes while we endure them, and the phenomenon of undermining and overfeeding has not disappeared.
We will never, ever have to eat the “flying pain”.
And then there are the shortcomings.
Everyone has deficiencies, and a clear-headed person sees more of them – his own, others’, and society’s. This is very painful. This is actually very painful. This is the type of person who opens his eyes not to say, “Today is another day full of energy,” but to ask himself, “What are you? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Staying awake and introspective may seem like excellent qualities, but it’s often the muddled, sluggish ones that make life more comfortable. We have no time for other people’s inadequacies; just our own inadequacies are already very disturbing.
Let’s go back to the water room of my college days.
Is there a problem with the girl who consistently fetches water and refuses to take care of everyone else? Why not take up a public resource and not let go? Why not be sorry for holding up others? Is this a deficiency in character or even personality? But she does not violate the law, do not break the law, I can not even condemn her in the moral high ground, because I am also anxious to compete for this resource, only I am more thin-skinned, not willing to affect others, ugly to themselves. Life’s trivialities are blunt knives to kill, you feel where all diaphragm, but is where all powerless to change. I reminded a sentence, she was ashamed to let the water, but in the future to fight for more things.
You think I’m going to say “let her be since she can’t change it”?
No.
If I were to say something like that, I would have been praising what it means to endure from the beginning, to be a deceitful and harmful ghost, to coax you to be eaten by a tiger, and to praise the tiger for having a hole in its stomach.
I would say that since there are people, a strange species, there are bound to be various deficiencies, just like mangoes have cores, watermelons have seeds, and carp have many spines, but we don’t eat mangoes to eat the cores, watermelons to remember to spit out the seeds, and fish to eat to specifically chew the spines.
If you have to live with someone for a long time, and that person’s deficiencies are seriously affecting your life and bothering your mood, does it make sense for you to put up with them? The first thing you need to do is to make sure that the person’s shortcomings are turned into “feet” and that the shortcomings are turned into strengths. His parents, teachers, and his education have not been able to solve the matter, by enduring it can be solved? What kind of panacea do you need to be? The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
Finally, I’d like to ask: Have you ever thought that it’s when we don’t have the means to deal with these deficiencies that we’re reduced to putting up with them? If we have the ability to carry everything easily, we can laugh at the inadequacies of others.
It needs to be singled out that not everyone can see their own inadequacies, not everyone can fix their inadequacies, and not all inadequacies have the same face. We live in differences, and when the morning light dawns on the Ussuri River, there are still stars on the Pamir plateau. Someone else’s inadequacy should disappear immediately in your view, but he may be able to survive precisely because of this inadequacy in your eyes. When you have the ability to help others and fix their inadequacies, you have to do, you can do, much more than just look on coldly, laugh at or even endure.
I’m going back to the water room in college, assuming our hot water machine works and the bathhouse is open, maybe the “deficiencies” are not even exposed, but rather the rituals of righteousness, justice, wisdom, and faith are revealed everywhere.
Now the school shower room vacuum, if I could break through the wall of time and space, I would like to invite my classmates to come over and take a shower.