The most common cause of divorce: frequent doubts and suspicions lead to divorce how to recover? My husband and I just got married not long ago, we were in a relationship for 5 years before we got married. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the most out of your life. At that time, my husband was also very good to me, various holidays company issued welfare products, he would bring back to me. Every Valentine’s Day he will also take me out, roses, candlelight dinner, chocolate as well. He said that girls like rituals, and this is done to make me feel happier.
Then we got both parents to meet and we discussed the marriage. I thought I would be happier after I got married because we belonged to each other completely. The first thing I did was to get married, but it was the beginning of a trial. My husband is now in the rise of his career, so his work is very busy. I am now more relaxed and have a lot of free time. I hope that my husband will treat me as he did before, and that he will always have my best interests at heart.
But now my husband is so preoccupied with his career that he cares less and less about me. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first time, the husband also explained to me, but now he did not bother to explain, directly to me, you want to think what you want to think. This makes me even more suspicious, and I often follow my husband. One day my husband found out, he was very angry. He said I was like a different person after I got married and became not trusting of him at all. He said that if this continues, we will divorce. Mr. Shiyi, I don’t want to divorce, I just want to make sure that my husband still loves me. What should I do, please?
Shiichi:
Hello, this woman. The fact that you are suspicious and stalking your husband from time to time is very wrong indeed. The reason is that you will make your husband feel that he is not respected and not trusted. If you want to save your marriage and want your husband to love you as much as before, then you should change these bad habits and give your husband more trust. Once you trust your husband and give him enough space, your husband will come back to you.
Besides that, you should change yourself and improve your charm. Changing yourself doesn’t only mean to change your usual dressing. Of course whether a wife is still attractive to her husband is also an important reason why he cheats or not, but the change I am talking about here is to change the inherent mode of getting along between you and your husband, to change the way you communicate and interact with each other, so that your husband has a new understanding of you, thus burning passion and being attracted to you for the second time.
I am Ishichi and I wrote an article called “Ishichi’s Heart Saving Technique”. I introduced a lot of emotional dry goods in this article and mentioned a lot of scientific and effective techniques to win back. This article has helped many people successfully save their marriage. If you also have related confusion, you can search this article to see.