You can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, but you can wake up a person who is good at hiding his emotions inside, and when you meet this kind of avoidant boyfriend, I believe many girls have a bit of a headache, and some people ask their teachers to say, “My boyfriend is good everywhere but his personality is a bit boring, and when he meets emotional problems together he chooses to be silent or evasive, and even after the two people break up they are still the kind of “Well, I know” kind of attitude. “The first thing you need to do is to get your boyfriend back.
How do I get my avoidant boyfriend back?
1. After a breakup, an avoidant boyfriend usually chooses to escape and is not willing to take the initiative to solve the problem, so first we need to get in touch with him, whether by chance or other methods of active contact, we need to let him feel that you still care about the relationship, let him feel your warmth, only let him face your relationship again, he will realize the problem.
2. In fact, if you love someone, you have to choose to take the initiative, and the same goes for the road to emotional recovery, since you are still in love with him, it is timely to express your love for him, and take the initiative to open your heart to him, so that he can take the initiative to come over and chat with you. The first thing you need to do is to take the initiative to talk to him and get him to change his avoidant personality.
3. We need to help him find a solution that works for him and help him actively work through his negative emotions. Sometimes breakups are caused by external pressures and we should actively accept his avoidant personality and express our commitment to him and give him enough support when he needs comfort. The first thing you need to do is to get up.
Does an avoidant boyfriend regret his breakup?
1. There are many kinds of situations where an avoidant boyfriend will regret a breakup, and it is not possible to make a generalization. The problem is that if both sides choose to respond with silence, the relationship may end at any time because of a little conflict in life. If you love him, please change with him and find a way to motivate him.
2. The avoidant boyfriend’s personality after things happen, the intensity of the psychological conflict exceeds his psychological tolerance, he will leave before he has an emotional breakdown and reduce his internal emotional fluctuations, everyone’s psychological tolerance is limited, his own tolerance is relatively small, a little external pressure stimulation can trigger strong internal anxiety, so that he has an escape.
3. You may think that he avoids things when he encounters them and will just be a boy who doesn’t have the courage to face things, but in front of his feelings, excessive mood swings will be his way of putting a protective shield on himself so that he will choose not to contact you, isolating you from him before and blocking out outside emotions, so we will see him behave, always so indifferent.