For women who remarried, which is more important after remarriage love or companionship? Whether men or women can lead a happy life after remarriage, it is somewhat uncertain in their hearts, because having been baptized by a failed marriage, there will always be some scars and even shadows in their hearts.
Which is more important, love or companionship in remarriage
No one can say what the outcome of remarriage will be, but whether it is a first marriage or a remarriage, everyone’s expectation of marriage is the same, that is, a happy life, a couple loving each other and following each other to grow old. So, for remarriage, which is more important, love or companionship? I think it goes without saying, of course, love, which is very important! A marriage without love, whether it is a first marriage or a remarriage, is like a body without a soul, it becomes cold and lifeless. For couples, friendship is the longest confession, and yes, it is confession. If there is a lack of friendship with each other, their lives will become increasingly numb and painful due to the lack of temperature and warmth.
Love is the foundation and the bond, especially for a woman, for a woman who has been hurt in a past marriage, and how she longs for love after remarriage. The desire to be nourished by love again, the desire to be in the company of life again, and then two people, with a common goal, striving to live a good life so that there will be no pain or hurt for the rest of their lives. Yet most of the time, people’s desire for a better life is ultimately just a luxury, and life is full of unpredictable setbacks and uncertain outcomes.
Women’s views on remarriage
Women who remarry, the first marriage she must have experienced all kinds of ups and downs after the marriage to give up, then in the later marriage choice, she may change the way of thinking to manage the marriage; either think that they themselves have no problem, still maintain the original viewpoint view, at most will go to care about their children, in the ex-husband that is good ; or have this idea: live only for the common good, armed with their own strong, to get rid of this older women’s chicken life. How you choose is up to you. The final reminder is that if there is still a possibility of remarriage, I hope not only to seriously consider love and companionship, but also to keep my eyes open, pay attention to mutual recognition, and see if I and that person really belong together.
Although love is important, not many remarried marriages are actually because of love
Not many remarried marriages are because of love, you may not believe that, but the reality is that they are, because after a failed marriage, people tend to be subconsciously distrustful and wary, so remarried couples are more realistic, and to be frank, most remarriages are just to have a The majority of remarried couples are, frankly, just trying to have a partner of the opposite sex to live with. Can’t you pursue your love after divorce? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
My friend divorced her ex-husband because she didn’t get along, and she was going to stop getting married and spend the rest of her life single because she was afraid that remarriage would make her even sadder, so she has been living alone for more than two years after the divorce, but now she wants to get married again because it’s hard to live alone, and the loneliness and emptiness makes her long for a partner of the opposite sex to be around. She is not eager to remarry someone who loves her, she will not fall into the “mud” again because of love, so she is very realistic in her choice, as long as the other party can be qualified and family-oriented, and can be relied on to meet their own requirements of men can be, feelings can be slowly cultivated after marriage.
Personally, I think this raises the question of whether it’s better to have love first and then get married, or to get married first and then develop a relationship. In fact, I think love is a beautiful wish, and marriage is the reality of life, the difference between the two is only first have love marriage, once the marriage broken heart hurt more seriously. The first thing you need to do is to get married and then develop a relationship with a couple that is much happier.
When it doesn’t work out with someone, women choose to divorce. Although there are many reasons for divorce, it is true that they are all because two people can no longer live together. Divorce doesn’t mean the end, it means a fresh start. When that person reappears, most women will still choose to commit to a new relationship. Remarriage is not like a first marriage, most divorced families have children, many people divorced due to emotional trauma and retaliatory remarriage, but please remember that women remarry, must think clearly, after all, married to make themselves happy, not to replicate a failed marriage again.