Marriage is a practice, and a happy marriage is all about management. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
A happy marriage requires two people to work together and give together, and only one person’s unilateral efforts are not enough. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
A happy marriage requires avoiding these 3 “red lines” that should not be easily touched
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Betrayal
Being faithful to each other as a couple is a basic rule in marriage. There is nothing more painful in marriage than the betrayal and infidelity of a lover, whether it is physical or spiritual, which can cause great damage to the marriage.
There are many reasons for betrayal in fact the main one is that there is no more affection for each other, the couple is numb to each other, just getting by, and over time, one party may look for other solace and thus betray each other. There is also the possibility that the couple’s feelings are flat, there is no longer a sense of freshness. It is possible that one of the partners is looking for excitement or novelty and thus betraying the marriage.
In a marriage, if either party betrays the marriage, it will inevitably cause great harm to the other party and will lead to the breakup of the couple’s relationship, and their marriage will eventually come to an end, even if they don’t choose to divorce because of the children, they are still inseparable from each other, and it will be difficult to break the mirror and return to the original form.
The most fundamental principle of a happy marriage is to be faithful to each other and to trust each other, so this requires both spouses to resist temptation, actively guard their love, and work together for a happy marriage.
A happy marriage requires avoiding these 3 “red lines” that must not be easily touched
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Suspicion
Many bad marriages die from suspicion, and the most taboo in marriage is “suspicion The word “suspicion” is the most taboo in marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. For example, in some families, the wife dressed up a little bit out of the door, the husband suspected that is not to go on a date with a man, and even will be verbally abusive; such as the wife is always distrustful of her husband, suspicious all day long, looking through the husband twitter, check the address book, etc., this is a manifestation of mutual distrust, suspicion will sooner or later the two sides of the relationship towards a rupture.
In fact, the reason for suspicion in marriage is nothing but two points, one is the lack of trust between the couple, once the lack of trust between the couple, they will be suspicious, nonsense, no longer believe in each other, over time, the two sides will have a gap, so that the relationship between the couple broke up, the marriage to extinction. The other is the lack of communication between the couple, when the misunderstanding occurred, the couple did not timely communication, communication and clarification, by this misunderstanding deeper and deeper, slowly fermented, so that finally can no longer be saved.
So, the most taboo thing in marriage is suspicion, and the best medicine for suspicion is trust and communication. The best cure is trust and communication. When there is suspicion and misunderstanding between the two sides, find the right time to communicate and eliminate the misunderstanding so that the marriage will last.
A happy marriage requires avoiding these 3 “red lines” that must not be easily touched
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Taking each other’s contribution for granted
“Taking for granted” is often a big taboo in relationships.
Take the other person’s contribution for granted
Take for granted is often a big no-no in relationships, and in marriage as well. The first thing you need to do is to take the other person’s contribution for granted, which is often a precursor to problems in the marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
My cousin’s ex-wife is a delicious, lazy person who takes the other person’s giving for granted.
My cousin’s ex-wife was a real hit when they fell in love, they were in a long-distance relationship, his ex-wife was five years younger than him, and after the wedding, my cousin really doted on her.
A happy marriage requires avoiding these 3 “red lines” that should not be easily touched
After the wedding, his ex-wife never cooked a meal, did not do housework, did not go to class, stayed at home all day either surfing the Internet or watching TV shows.
The cousin’s place of work is close to home, and he gives a good breakfast every day before he goes to work, goes back at noon to wash the pots and pans, and does the noon meal, and goes back at night from work to do the housework, and so on, day after day, for three years, his ex-wife is still the same, taking his contribution as a matter of course, and never seeing her husband’s hard work and effort, and so on, finally, my cousin could not hold out any longer, and asked her for a divorce.
In marital life, couples should each do their part, give to each other and operate together, so that the marriage can last, do not be emboldened to take each other’s contribution and love for granted, so that, one day, the other will feel tired and bored, and then that’s when your feelings break down.
A happy marriage requires avoiding these 3 “red lines” that must not be easily touched
Conclusion:
A happy marriage requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife to operate together, only one party alone struggling is very tired, and, more importantly, in married life, two people should know how to communicate with each other. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. In short, even if the couple’s feelings are good, these three red lines should not be easily touched, this can be about lifelong happiness.
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