Although with the opening of the mind, most people are pursuing equality between men and women, but in some remote rural areas, the phenomenon of son preference still exists, in their minds, the daughter is someone else’s family, grow up to marry, only the son is reliable, is the backbone of the family, can pass on the generation, for their own retirement, so “raise children to prevent old age “becomes a thing that we all adhere to the rules, then raising children can really prevent old age? The first thing I want to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
A 55-year-old mother’s awakening: Don’t believe that raising children can prevent old age, you simply can’t count on it, or daughters are better
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My second aunt lives in a rural area and is influenced by traditional beliefs. She just started having three daughters, so she has been looked down upon and sometimes even abused by her in-laws. The company’s first two children were born in the United States, but the fourth was a daughter, so the family had no place in the family.
Maybe God saw that the second wife’s life was too hard and finally let her have a son, named Guoqiang. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public. The family is also spoiled Guoqiang to the extreme, in the mouth for fear of melting, held in the hands for fear of falling, any good food and good use will be given to keep, completely forgetting that there are four daughters who have not grown up. Whenever Guoqiang made a mistake, the second aunt wanted to educate, the whole family would welcome the siege, saying that Guoqiang is still young, do not know what to do, there is no need to bother with small children. Although the family is poor, as long as it is Guoqiang’s request, everyone will try to meet it. The four sisters are also quite understanding and will give way to their younger brother Guoqiang in everything, and act as they should for the family’s preference.
The 55-year-old mother’s awakening: Don’t believe that raising a child can prevent old age, you can’t count on it, it’s better to have a daughter
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The family’s indulgence has also contributed to Guoqiang’s inability to learn, he didn’t study well in school and thought about how to play all day, so he didn’t get into university.
The first time I saw this, I was able to find a way to get into the world.
When Guoqiang went to technical school, his four sisters, who already had a family, were as good as ever to Guoqiang, and never let him suffer a bit. Guoqiang graduated successfully and soon found a job, although far from home, in Shihezi, Xinjiang, more than 2,000 kilometers away from home, but also considered to be a step into society, self-sufficient. The first thing that people didn’t expect was that Guo Qiang, who already had a job, would not be able to support himself at all, and would actually ask for money from his family. At first, people thought that he had just started working, and that his salary might be low, so they didn’t say anything, but then they found out that three years had passed and he was still the same as ever, and that he had called his family for money for three years, and he had returned home once in three years.
A 55-year-old mother’s awakening: Don’t believe that raising children can prevent old age, you simply can’t count on it, or your daughter is better
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Second aunt has also accumulated a lot of illnesses due to years of hard work, and last year, she was found to have a tumor. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product for the company. The company’s four daughters begged and begged for money to pay for the surgery, but Guoqiang was completely indifferent.
Just some time ago, the second aunt’s tumor recurred, this time much more serious than the previous one, and the doctor also issued a notice of critical illness, asking the family to make arrangements for the afterlife, but Guo Qiang, the family’s only heir, was not around, and it was always the four sisters who took care of the second aunt. So the eldest sister called the second aunt’s condition told Guo Qiang, hoping that Guo Qiang can come back to see the second aunt, perhaps also see the last side, but Guo Qiang’s answer is: “I’m very busy, no time, one day do not call to bother me, let quickly go to hell, and then call me when you die, and then I come back to bury on the line, and do not have to run back and forth toss. ” Guo Qiang’s words angry older sister almost dropped the phone, but also let the whole family broke their hearts. The second aunt has been in tears this day, often lamenting: they say that raising children prevents old age, but now I want to see the last side, what else can I expect, if not four daughters, I’m afraid I would have died, or daughter good ah.
A 55-year-old mother’s wake-up call: Don’t believe that raising children can prevent old age, you can’t count on them. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. In fact, whether it is a son or a daughter, we should know how to be grateful, it is our parents who brought us into the world, it is our parents who raised us, our parents’ love for us is never should, when we have the ability, we should know how to repay our parents, should not make them sad and let them grow old without support. In short, our parents raised us, and we should grow old with them.
A 55-year-old mother’s awakening: Don’t believe that raising a child can prevent old age, you simply can’t count on it, or a daughter is good
The saying goes that raising a child doesn’t know how hard a mother works, and raising a daughter is hard to repay her parents’ kindness.
The first time I saw a woman, I thought she was going to be a good girl.
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