The other day I was talking to a boy and I said, “Do you think you are very “dark”?
He didn’t mind, he just said, “Go ahead and write it, and when you do, I’ll give you a like.
I casually agreed, “Okay, I’ll write it later.
I thought this would be the end of the story, after all, I had a lot of brainstorming moments and decided to write a lot of articles, but in the end very few of them were actually written.
Last night, the boy asked me what I was doing.
I said, “I’m writing a manuscript.
The boy said, “Are you writing the article “What is it like to have a dark boyfriend”?
I said, “No.
I said, “No. Why do you remember that article?
He said, “Didn’t you say you were going to write it? Besides, I’ve been eating other people’s dog food online every day, and I’m not allowed to let other people eat my dog food.
I continue to reply: you are giving me a relationship kpi, it looks like I can’t not?
He replied: This is what you promised to write about, you wanted to write about it, so I gave it a push.
Me: Do you want me to write it or not?
He said, “Well, it’s up to you. If you want to write, then you can write.
I laughed and said, “What just happened? Why did it go from “You really want me to write this article” to “I really want to write this article”?
He also laughed and said, “You said you wanted to write this article, but you forgot about it.
There was an opportunity to write this article.
So, you asked me what it’s like to have a “dark” boyfriend.
A: The most obvious feeling of having a dark boyfriend is that your dark boyfriend won’t say it directly, but he will indirectly, proudly, and intentionally urge you to write this answer. The company is also looking forward to seeing what you have to say about him.
So let’s get started.
One night shortly after we met, the boy called me, sounding frustrated, telling me about the stress at work, and I tried to comfort him. The first thing we did was talk about our frustrations at work, but after only a few sentences, our conversation turned to discussing each other’s past lives and experiences. We talked for hours that night.
The next night, after I finished my work, I took the initiative to call him, and I forget what the first thing I said to him was, but it was a long conversation anyway. At the end of the conversation, he asked me, “Why did you suddenly remember to call me today? I said, “Maybe I suddenly wanted to talk to you today”. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
At the time, I thought the boy was nice enough to admit that he was happy that I took the initiative to find him. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The day before he even because of work sad to find me to talk, but the essence is also he wants to talk to me ah, why I stupidly think he just work pressure, and not like him to see the essence through the phenomenon. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product.
So when he called me on the third day, I got smart and asked, “So, why did you want to call me again today?” I thought a lot about the answer to that question. I thought he might say “because he wants to talk to me” and so on.
But the boy was off the beaten track, dry, generous, and got back to me seriously: Because we were talking two nights ago, and since we’ve all gotten into this routine, let’s make it a habit.
The moment I heard the boy say this, I had the feeling of being shocked, of my heart suddenly slowing down a beat, and even more of being deeply trapped, and that everything was in the other party’s plan.
The rest of the conversation was that I followed up with “You better remember what you said today.
The boy said, “I remember it well, but as long as you can hold on to it, I’m sure I can hold on to it.
The most obvious feeling about being in a relationship with a “dark” boy is that you don’t need to be in a relationship like you were in your twenties, constantly testing and retreating, and no one is willing to take more initiative, so you can’t move forward in a relationship. When you’re in a relationship with them, they will occasionally test the waters in some cute ways, but after they are sure they have the answer they want, they will take back the progress of the relationship and they won’t make you guess anything. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right person.
He’ll let you know that “he likes you” and he’ll let you know that “you like him” too.
This is where he is a bit dominant, but also where he is romantic.
Before we formalized our relationship, we were already very ambiguous, and we knew in our hearts that we would naturally become boyfriend and girlfriend.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good relationship.
He said, “Okay, I’ll have to think about how to give you a ritual.
Then one time, he mysteriously came up and said he wanted to tell me something funny. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. His colleague said that once his daughter-in-law asked him for a sense of ritual, he did not know how to get it, so he bought a lot of snacks at home and hid them, and the result was that his daughter-in-law found them all. He said and laughed out loud.
When he talked about it, I interrupted him and said, “I don’t need you to buy any snacks. The ritual that girls want is a very straightforward phrase, a very clear point in time, a moment in time when I think about it later, when I know what day, at what moment, what happened.
By the time I was done with this, I knew I had been set up.
I asked him, “Did you just set me up.
He said, “I didn’t say anything, you interrupted me in the middle of the conversation and were talking about your girls’ rituals.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
I always felt like I was a pretty smart guy, but every time I talked to him, I always got wrapped up in him.
I think it’s a good idea to look up the question of whether or not girls get dumber when they fall in love.
I think the most stupid thing about love is that I, a motivational blogger and half-emotional blogger, would take such a question to Baidu.
Love doesn’t make you stupid, but the love you have for the person you like makes you stupid.
There are many more such set moments, for example:
He asked me once, “Send me a screenshot of our chat background, and I’ll see what you have in mind for me.
I simply and straightforwardly sent him a screenshot of our chat, and justifiably said, “Look, I gave you your first name as a note, I’m impressed. He pretended to be pitiful and said he gave me a super cute name, I even gave him my full name, and told me “Mom and Dad every time they call our full name is not a little scary, always wondering if they did something wrong again, you gave me my full name”. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
There was a time when I forgot what he had done, and I jokingly told him, “Why are you such a bum, you’re a little bum, a little bum.
He said, “I don’t like the name Little Rascal.
I said, “Then I’ll go change your note to Little Rascal right now.
This time he was happy to say, “Yes, yes, you can change it to Little Rascal right now.
When I saw how happy he was to agree, I felt like there was a scam. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet. The first time I saw it, I was able to get it.
So now his Facebook notes are still his first name hahahaha.
He always said I was playing the pig and eating the tiger, so I slowly learned to “use my strength” and one time I said he was playing the pig and eating the sheep (I always say I’m a sheep to be slaughtered). He said, “Pigs don’t eat sheep. The first time I saw this, I said, “I’m not a pig.
He immediately replied to me that he was pretending to be a cat and eating a lot of cuteness.
I thought it was funny, so I said, “That’s cute, I like it, I’ve decided it’s mine from now on.
He graciously took the line, “OK, OK, OK, it’s all yours, all mine are yours.
I felt like he was going to start setting me up again and decided to take the initiative this time, to take the initiative and not always be given the lead.
So, I said, yeah, you’re mine too.
He said, you’re mine too.
I thought that was the end of it, that it was at least a tie, that it wasn’t too bad in the end.
But after that, he added, “What’s mine is yours, and you’re mine anyway.
I didn’t see anything wrong with this sentence, and after a while, I said to him afterwards: “I’m sure you’re still a winner in life.
Someone slowly picked up the question: Isn’t it good for me to be a winner in life?
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
Even though he occasionally sets me up to say what he really thinks, and even though I pretend to be angry when I see the set-up and say, “You’re going too far, you’re setting me up again,” there’s no denying that it’s just the two of us teasing each other from time to time (though, more often than not, it’s him teasing me. The fact that we have a lot of time to spend with each other (although, more often than not, it’s him teasing me, and only afterwards do I realize that he’s just making fun of me again) is what makes the relationship so much more “fun”, as it were.
Including the fact that I labeled him “dark” in the same sense. It’s just a little fun at this stage.
People’s relationships tend to be bland and ordinary, and occasionally they need a little fun, they need to show each other that “I treat you differently than I treat other people”, they need to tell each other straight up that you really mean it, they need some sense of specialness to add to our relationship.
It’s not that we can’t accept ordinary relationships or that we’re not willing to accept the fact that we’re ordinary people, it’s just that if that person is you, I’d like to make an effort to have a relationship with you that’s different from others. The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have the right amount of money.
Of course, in my heart, I don’t think he’s really dark, and I don’t want him to be really “dark. And I’m not going to keep the “dark” label on him forever. It’s just a word that I find funny at this stage, and maybe after a few times, I’ll never use it again to describe him.
Just like I’ve called him a “set-up” before, but I’ve said it to his face a few times, and I’ve ripped it off myself.
I don’t like to use a bad word to label him or describe him, I don’t want to give him a negative psychological implication, and I’m afraid that if he stays labeled for a long time, what if he really becomes the person in the label.
Whether or not this psychological implication exists, I don’t want to do this experiment on him.
Use more beautiful words to describe your lover. That’s a true statement.
That’s what I want to say most to boys and girls in relationships with this post. Give your relationship some more good nourishment.
So, the question at the beginning, “What is it like to have a dark boyfriend?” .
I’m sorry I can’t answer that question. Because I’m a bit selfish, I want to use better words to describe him later.
But if reading this article has inspired you a little bit, then you have found your answer.
Finally, I’d like to make a point here: I don’t know what it’s like to fall in love with a “dark” boy, but I do know that it’s not a bad feeling to meet someone you like and fall in love with them.
May you have a pretty good relationship this winter, too.