Emotional issues are becoming more and more important to everyone in this society nowadays. Emotional problems include all aspects. If these emotional problems are not handled properly, they will certainly affect our lives. Today, phenomenological emotional experts will list the emotional problems that exist among internet users themselves. The case in point is: what to do if you want to save them? Thank you
Question: Mr. Choi, because he didn’t have time to read the advice you gave me the second time, he asked me to talk about it yesterday, actually to solve some doubts in his mind. Sorry to reach the mark, everything is doing well, let me accompany him to buy a hat, but still insist on separation. After reading my long letter about our experience, he said he felt nothing. He used to have only 20 points of love for me and now he only has 5 points, so he doesn’t feel that much love for me. It’s not just because I made a mistake, but of course, the mistake was the trigger. He insists on respecting his decision for now. We spent last night together. In the morning, we saw what you suggested and tried to communicate in an emotional way. He said don’t do that. We both agreed that you are not a liar. I felt sorry for you ~ so I made an excuse to get out of his house and we broke up peacefully. Teacher, to be honest, he is the one I can find at the moment. If I want to get back, what should I do? Thank you
Answer: This should be your third question. Thank you for your trust. You said you communicated your feelings, but the guy didn’t want it. It means he is avoiding you because he thinks we are trying to make purposeful friends. At this point, if you want to save it, you will be disconnected. You have to be prepared with three mindsets. One: He may be with another woman, and no matter who he interacts with, your involvement will backfire, a risk all recovery must take; Two: To contact him, it can only be mediocre, ordinary, friend-like. Three: you two broke up not because you did something wrong and he did something wrong, but because you two weren’t right for each other, so don’t feel like you weren’t good enough; eventually, you can turn your attention to other things, work and a new man. When you have a better choice, your confusion and entanglement will naturally collapse.