A happy marriage requires the best efforts of two people, not one person’s hard work. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a good deal on your own, and you’ll be able to get a good deal on your own. Cold war, when we face this situation should be how to deal with?
How to resolve a cold war after a fight?
Couples may disagree over a small matter in the course of their lives, which can lead to an argument. The first is that the couple may not want to lose face during the argument, which may lead to a cold war. There are three main solutions: the cold war between the two spouses must be dealt with in a timely manner, one of the two spouses to put down the body to show weakness as well as communication by way of text messages during the cold war, the reason why the two spouses to deal with the cold war in a timely manner, because if the cold war develops into cold violence, then the relationship between the two people may be difficult to repair. In addition one of them to show weakness to the other, is not a show of losing face, but a show of love for each other. If you are too embarrassed to open up to each other during a cold war, you can communicate with each other through indirect forms such as texting and calling.
1. The cold war must be dealt with in time
The cold war caused by quarrels must be dealt with in time, if it has been dragged on it is easy to affect the life of the couple. The cold war often develops into a habitual cold war after a long time, and after one party is completely disappointed with the other party, the habitual cold war will develop into cold violence, then the relationship between the two people may be difficult to repair, and it may lead to divorce. So after the couple’s cold war, must be the treatment, can not keep dragging on and hurt each other. One of the two spouses to put down the body to show weakness to each other, is not a show of losing face, but a show of love for each other. In addition, if the quarrel cold war, not always a specific party to put down the body to accommodate. Whether right or wrong, after all, after showing weakness, the two people back to reason, it is natural to know who is right and who is wrong. In the couple’s cold war period, the initiative to show weakness is to maintain the marriage must be done, do not abandon the person who loves you for your so-called face, so it is not worth the loss. The other party will definitely give you a step down if they want to continue to be with you, and this way, the cold war between you won’t be over.
2. Communicate by texting during the cold war
If the cold war is long, then the couple must not be missing the usual communication. Many people are because they can’t wipe their faces, hard to share a you-lose, I win situation, but often in the end is a lose-lose situation. So during the cold war embarrassed to open up to each other, you can communicate with each other through indirect forms such as SMS phone calls. The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
The consequences of a cold war between a husband and wife – Reply from a friend:
My man is such a temper, he gets angry over small things, his words hurt people, and he is still so mean when he reaches middle age. The company is always thinking that the family belongs to him and will kick you out when he gets angry. A big man’s words are not responsible at all. So, I am very angry. Just ignore him! Marriage, whatever you like! His bad temper will never change. As a woman into this home, how much aggravation. There is no way to get by without a strong heart!
Three views are not compatible, and the plan is not compatible. I think to do something should be done well, that even if it is not done well, we should find a way or find someone to help do it well. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Look at others sweating to do, but also laugh at me how silly. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The cold war is that it has a purpose, for example, the cold war is to make you submit, to make you obey me because of my cold war, so as to make your changes and further to control you, this is the real meaning of the cold war. We generally say I’m cold warring, I’m ignoring you, I’m just temporarily ignoring you for a little bit, or I’m just I’m not talking at the moment, but if I see you having grief, grieving, or I see you taking further action, maybe I’ll still take some action.
And my husband has been married for four years, has a 3-year-old daughter, quarreled countless times, divorce has been several times, can not let go of the daughter, there is no communication, only arguments, now are not talking to each other, do not know how much longer to put up with, now is to see the kind of hate, but the daughter is their own life, I am going crazy, see the cold war a year? I do not know how I persisted, divorce and he did not agree, together and no way, my daughter six months old when I was supporting themselves, but also with the child, I feel that I am too tired of such a life, the day to a bit of pain, away from the child I raise, how good it is! The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem.
I also like the cold war, angry and do not want to care about my husband, and I am very difficult to coax, sometimes the more he coaxes me the more angry I am, so he rarely coaxes me now, how to do, I also know my character is very stubborn, but I just can not change, angry and do not want to say a word to him.
If you meet someone like my husband, your methods won’t work at all, and when I communicate with my husband, I just tear the house down, and he doesn’t say a word, not a single question.
We have been married for twenty-eight years now and we are not happy.