Not every girl is naturally gentle and understanding. You never know how much she suffered at the hands of the boy she thought she could spend the rest of her life with. She may also be a girl with a small temper, jealous and petulant, only she has smoothed her edges for a boy, her love buried in her heart, including her joy and sorrow.
I have a female friend, everyone’s impression of her is that she is good and generous, gentle and understanding, because she never quarrels with her boyfriend and tolerates him without limits, many people think she is a person of the city.
When she and her boyfriend were together, she would unintentionally talk about some celebrities, thus discovering the type of boy she liked, and then slowly move closer to that type herself.
When she goes out with her boyfriend, she never takes her eyes off him, giving him face and falling in front of his friends.
She looks for her boyfriend’s interests in the topics he usually brings up to fit him. Her boyfriend often says, “We were just made for each other, our souls are in tune with each other.”
Every time he says that I silently think to myself, “There aren’t that many people who fit, there’s just one person who’s changing to match you.”
They were together for a long time, even met the parents, and the guy’s parents were happy with the girl. The first day, my friend came to me and said, “He’s out there with someone else.” I was shocked because when she said that, there was no sadness, no anger, as if she was stating something about someone else. I asked her, “How do you know?”
She just smiled and said, “His perfume changed, he went to the shower first when he got home, and his tiktok paid for the parking at the hotel.”
I said, “So now you’re the proof is overwhelming, let’s go catch the adultery, let’s splash them, let’s make a fuss so they can never hold their heads up again.”
But she shot me an envious look, “So that’s what I would have done before.”
After that my friends didn’t say anything about it, and they were still the divine couple of all their friends, except that I never went to the party where the boy was.
After nearly half a year, my female friend came to my house without saying hello, and she was in a panic, no longer her usual calmness and generosity. I didn’t expect her to hug me and cry furiously, she cried for a long time crying to sobbing, crying eyes swollen, voice mute. After that she lit up the cigarettes she had quit for two years. She didn’t say anything, and I didn’t ask anything, just stayed with her, and I think I knew that she had met someone, the one she had buried in her heart.
After a short time, she broke up with her boyfriend for the reason: “He cheated on her.”
When you love someone it’s like you have an armor and a weakness at the same time. So when this person is leaving you you know that your armor is gone and so are your soft spots.
With her permission, I’m going to share her story with you.
The reason is probably because I hope all guys cherish the girl next to you who gets angry and has little tantrums and pampers because she’s in love with you.