Cheating is not uncommon in today’s society, and according to statistics, 15% to 25% of people in the United States have experienced cheating. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. In other words, people are still willing to fix the relationship.
1. When it comes to cheating, we will certainly not forget the most recent and fresh cheating incident, Taobao, Tmall, Ali mother business group president Jiang Fan, his wife hand-ripped the mistress incident, which led to Jiang Fan being removed from Ali Partners, and he was reportedly demoted and transferred to the recreation department.
Jiang Fan did make a mistake in this case, but the price he paid was heavy enough, but I think this way of handling Dong Huahua is also inappropriate, so I won’t elaborate on it here.
The incident did not continue to ferment, it looks like Jiang Fan has returned to the family ……
2. Friend A good, really everything is good, good character, good temper, good figure, we sometimes have complaints because of certain things, and A good is never complained about half a sentence, she is always getting along well at all times, smile
The day of the event
The other day, Ah Hao’s husband cheated on her, and we all felt bad for Ah Hao. Ah Hao’s husband’s cheating was a big deal, and her husband, Ah Qiang, eventually returned to the family, but I haven’t seen Ah Hao’s smile since.
Writer Zhou Guoping also offered insight into cheating, arguing that if your lover happens to cheat, my advice is that if you still have basic faith in your love, it’s best to forgive with an understanding of human nature. The absolute definition of perfect love exists only in fairy tales, and real-life love is not without its regrets, but it is a living love between a living man and a living woman.
The writer Zhou Guoping implies that there are bound to be regrets, but not to the point of separation. The writer said, “If the cheating is a fact, how can we repair the relationship if the other person is willing to return to the family?
One, first of all, simply break off with the outside lover, and then give a sincere apology to the family
Since you choose to return, do not remember the good of the lover, and a break with the lover, no matter who is also a good thing, you let people go, maybe she can also harvest the rightful happiness.
Cheating is damaging to both the partner and the children, especially to the children, and if not repaired in time, it can cause the children to distrust their father and, in serious cases, lead to a broken relationship.
A sincere apology, an explanation to the children to their partners, and a sincere and dependable commitment to them are still necessary.
Two, give each other a cooling off period
If your partner doesn’t give you any response but doesn’t reject you, then it is a willingness to fix the relationship. If your partner doesn’t respond for the time being, then you should be patient and take care of your children first. For example, it used to be your partner’s responsibility to pick up and drop off your children, you can take the initiative to pick up and drop off your children at school, take the initiative to help your children do their homework and play with them, and interact with them in a way that impresses your partner.
Find time to revisit old places as a family, but take your time with everything, don’t rush, it doesn’t seem sincere to rush.
You can’t have three minutes of enthusiasm either. If you play house mentality with your family and only have three minutes of enthusiasm, then you should simply not return.
Three, rebuilding trust
This point really takes time, that relationship collapse, it may be just a moment, but rebuilding trust, it will take a long time to wait, and heart to manage. There’s a saying that trust in a marriage needs to be woven down slowly, stitch by stitch, and when trust is missing, it falls apart with a gentle tug. Clinical psychologist Janis Spring lists specific behaviors that promote trust, and she suggests that cheaters make a table listing the relevant behaviors they do each day. Behaviors such as:
Giving your partner better control of whereabouts (reducing unnecessary personal engagements, such as needing to work late and work engagements, and having to contact your partner with information in advance)
Increasing time with your partner (coming home on time, eating and walking with your family, etc., increasing self-exposure to your partner (telling your partner what you’re thinking, how you’re feeling, etc., all with the intention of The intention of all this is to make your partner feel at ease, is to reestablish trust lies in sincerity, you are sincere to return to the family then to show sincerity.
A broken heart can be repaired, but it takes time. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good relationship with your partner.